I have been in a relationship for four months. I have been really close to her for 7 months. I think things are/were fine, but when I read some of these threads, all I see are simularities. I've dealt with Jealousy most of my life, but it's a bastard I wish I didn't have. I remember threads saying myspace and facebook were ruining relationships and tonight I seen a bit in my own relationship. Little backstory: We talked a lot when we first met and I learned about men from her past and whatnot. She mentioned this guy she had a fling with, but that was that. They just fooled around and he couldn't fit inside her so they stopped. *note she was a virgin though because I broke it with my fingers...* Well yesterday she tells me on the phone that that guy messaged her on tagged. I was like "wtf is tagged" and she explained its like facebook. Anyway later that night she adds him to facebook for me to "see" and dude is totally hotter than me. I get super jealous/she doesn't see a problem with it. Then she messages him like "HEY!!!" and he replys with "Hey we haven't seen each other in forever we should meet up".... I don't know what the fuck to feel. I don't want my jealousy to kick in but dude I don't like that reply one bit. Makes me want to do alpha male shit to the guy.