Why do i always get the clingy girls?

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  1. Chris90210

    Chris90210 New Member

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    It always seems when i date anyone 2/3 times they are psycho.. the last psycho girl i had i should have put a restraining order on.. but anyway i am "talking" to this chick and nothing hasn't even developed just every once and a while we will hang out :dunno: Well i went to Dallas over the weekend and on Saturday she has to call me asking for permission(what it boiled down too) to go on a double date with one of her friends. of course she thinks its cheating but i said "We not even Dating go have fun" (end of convo phone was going dead) well Sunday my phone was dead and she called a TON of times. (forgot to mess with phone on Monday) Tuesday rolls around and she starts sending me these text messages like "so how many girls did you hook up with in Texas" ect ect. :wtf: so i call her back and tell her i didn't see anyone and she proceeds to say "You make my life better and i know i make yours better" me, i didn't reply i was just sitting there going :noes: . then after a pause she says i will just take that as a yes. (after that i turned off my phone and when i get off work i go to bed:o just don't want to mess with it i've have a cold so i've been drugging up and going to bed)

    i'm getting out of this quick i only see danger from this point on.
     
  2. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Holy crap.... time to change your phone numbers, and move if she knows where you live.... :eek4:

    That's really freaky.
     
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    Thats nothing the girl i should have put the restraining order showed up to my house with no one there and laid IN MY BED CRYING til i got home:noes: and after i broke up with here i was gone most of the night hanging with friends:ugh: she stalked me for about 1 1/2 years? somewhere around
     
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    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Whoa. Have you seen the show "Two and a Half Men" by chance?? Sounds like a rather similar situation....
     
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    sorry no, but it sounds like i don't want to

    edit but i have watched swimfan:noes:
     
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    most girls at your age are clingy, and get ahead of themselves. perhaps it doesnt get better with age.
     
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    hey baby wanna see the eagles beak get real big:naughty:
     
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    but not usually that bad i guess that one psycho girl kinda scares me off of other clingy girls but still i have dated chicks where everything was just laid back.
    is this normal (all from one girl)
    1. Have the girl chase you down in sports events.
    2. Leave scores of text, IM, and phone calls.
    3. Drive by your house and even through the fields behind your house.
    4. Go to a funeral just to chase you down to talk:ugh: .
    5. Over a year later sending letters, pictures, ect.
    6. Have her friends take her to your house (different car) and try to get me to join them even though they forget to tell me about her being around.

    For someone who is 19 years old both of us being in different colleges(not repeatedly making it clear i wanted nothing to do with her) why did i have to call her a psycho before she left me alone? She is on facebook now trying to get me to confirm the details "Dated but things where too complicated.":rofl: wtf
     
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    *Update* i finally get her to leave me alone but i started getting text messages again. and me not wanting to be a complete douche answered her.

    Her- Are you in Dallas?
    Me- No (had plans to go to dallas this week during spring break)
    Her- O i feel horrible
    Me- Why?
    Her- My oral surgery was monday so now i'm recovering i can't eat
    Me- Fun
    Her- No it sucks it took 2 hours and they had to put stiches in 2 places which i get out monday i look like a chipmunk with big bubba lips!
    Me- That sucks
    Her- Ya i hate it the only positive thing is that I'll shed some pounds bc i can't eat
    Me- Why do you need to loose weight?
    Her- I'm just saying i wil bc i can only drink stuff and losing a little won't hurt me i hope to be better by sat. so i can go to teh air show with erik.
    Me- Cool (i'm being short on purpose)
    Her-I just hope i'm better i met erik when i stayed the night with his sister kristen over the weekend he is campingon ozark mtn has been since monday
    Me-cool (still don't care don't know him probably made up)
    Her-I don't know how it will go he just broke up with this girl who asked him to marry her/have sex so he is kind of on the rebound she was like in the 9th grade!
    Me- Poor guy lost his booty call :)mamoru:)
    Her- No i'm glad he didn't accept that offer unlike u lol!
    Me- I hit it but it wasn't all that great. :)mamoru:)
    Her- U wish


    (this is copied directly from the text messages)
    this is getting old quick she needs to screw im and leave me alone good god
     
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    i suggest just giving her one word answers. if you dont like talking to her, why did you ask follow up questions?
     
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    is it The one that thinks im sexually explicit when she calls and I answer your phone? or the complete phsyco fat one that waits for her friends to get drunk and gets on them and looks like an elephant mountin a gazelle?
     
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    at first i was going to go that then when the sex crap came up i figured i would have some fun:mamoru: now i feel like being a complete douche
     
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    the one that things you are sexually explicit
     
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    Haha... be a complete douche... and a jerk. Then tell her that you will date her only if she lets you do her IDB... which she will decline then say I'm done with you.... or let me continue being sexually explicit with her... I get a kick out of it... it makes my day
     
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    i think i'm just going to leave it open at "u wish"
     
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    start obsessing over her, tell her you love her, etc.

    she'll leave you alone
     
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    or it will blow up in his face. *there is a chance
     
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    :ugh: This is a good idea if you really, really, really want to hurt her to the point of semi-permanent damage to her ego. Just saying "I love you" to my ex-gf when I never meant it fucked her confidence up for a long time. I can't even imagine how bad it would have been if I had bought 1000's of flowers, acted clingy, and become obsessive, all as part of an act.
     
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    yeah i guess that was an asshole post. :o id be pissed as hell/miserable if a girl did that to me.

    carry on.
     
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    yea i don't feel like being that big of a jerk :mamoru: i'm just going to start hitting ignore/delete if she is going to see some other dude maybe she will leave me alone
     
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    maybe you're subconsciously hooking up with the girls who have similar traits and thus end up with the clingy psycho bitches
     

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