why do girls with bf still flirt with guys??

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by quamen, Dec 25, 2006.

  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 14, 2003
    Messages:
    1,503
    Likes Received:
    0
    It kinda makes me wonder why girls who have bfs flirt with you still or give you signs hey I like you. I had this happen many times before,but never really understood why they didi it. It happened the other day at the gym, to a girl who i actually find very attractive,but know she has a bf so made no moves. Everytime i go to workout, she seems to go and work out because she works there to begin with. She smiles at me, even says hi to me with my ear phones on. Walks in front of me when she can go around me or a different way. It annoys the shit out of me girls do this to tease you.
     
  2. Toda Party

    Toda Party .....

    Joined:
    Jan 6, 2002
    Messages:
    2,431
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    N.Y.
    There are many reasons, but maybe that's just her personality. I sometimes flirt with girls that I'm not even attracted to- that's just the way I am.
     
  3. k0in b4hd

    k0in b4hd New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 4, 2004
    Messages:
    1,656
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    oregon
    dude what century are you living in? any girl who gives you attention when she has a bf is obviously not happy with him, probably his small dick or crappy attitude is usually it
     
  4. quamen

    quamen New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 14, 2003
    Messages:
    1,503
    Likes Received:
    0
    haha true


    I guess i hate doing that shit to begin with, because it might take some time to figure out if she is a tease or really interested. I always hated when girls would give me attention when they had bfs, especially if they were my good guy friends. It makes me thing there attention whores,sluts, or just not happy with that guy, but they wont say that outright.
     
  5. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 3, 2005
    Messages:
    110,606
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Maryland
    I think some/most girls do it to reassure themselves that guys are still interested.
    It's cruel, but it's more of an ego booster
     
  6. bowrofl

    bowrofl New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 20, 2005
    Messages:
    6,555
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Toronto, Canadia
    They like attention.
     
  7. jackjohnson

    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Apr 5, 2002
    Messages:
    40,863
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Southern California
    you are reading too far into it :rofl:

    friendly=!flirting
     
  8. Reloe

    Reloe New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 12, 2006
    Messages:
    82
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Cornwall,UK
    :werd:
     
  9. kiz

    kiz New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 21, 2004
    Messages:
    942
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New Fuckin' Jersey
    even if they are flirting, who cares? flirting never hurt anyone. I'm in a long term relationship and I flirt with girls all the time. It's fun! Who cares where you get your appetite from as long as you eat at home?
     
  10. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jun 23, 2006
    Messages:
    65,506
    Likes Received:
    1
    Cuz they are attention whores, or maybe just regular whores.
     
  11. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 11, 2004
    Messages:
    4,413
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NOVA
    There is flirting which I consider practicing.

    Then there is flirting with intent, which is a whole different thing.
     
  12. TomBrady

    TomBrady New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 9, 2005
    Messages:
    29,658
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    space
    because theyre selfish
     
  13. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 3, 2005
    Messages:
    110,606
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Maryland
    to all the guys saying "they're whores" or "just looking for attention" are you mad cause you aren't with them or what?

    seems like most of you are gearing it towards negativity
     
  14. JustaMeThang

    JustaMeThang New Member

    Joined:
    May 3, 2002
    Messages:
    1,677
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Long Island, NY

    Both men and woman both flirt with people of the opposite sex, I believe its human nature. To say that only women do it, or do it more would be false. Flirting is natural and healthy. There is a line, and it shouldnt be crossed. Both men and women both flirt while in relationships, people with negativity have probably just been burnt.
     
  15. quamen

    quamen New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 14, 2003
    Messages:
    1,503
    Likes Received:
    0
    i have negative thoughts about it most likely since i have been cheated on 2 times already with girls.
     
  16. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jun 23, 2006
    Messages:
    65,506
    Likes Received:
    1
    No, we're mad because it's disrespectful. Would you want your gf flirting with other guys? I wouldn't.
     
  17. BlackIce72

    BlackIce72 New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2005
    Messages:
    7,867
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NJ
    I don't like it, so I don't date women who do it. It's much more simple than it seems.

    If a girl leaves you concerned about something like that, then why be with her at all?
     
  18. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 3, 2005
    Messages:
    110,606
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Maryland
    oh, I was looking at it from the other end: the guy who the girl was flirting with :o

    but what you said, I agree with
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Sep 8, 2004
    Messages:
    23,006
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Manhattan
    nah
     
  20. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    Pratice?
     
  21. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jun 30, 2003
    Messages:
    8,692
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Sydney, Australia
    :werd:

    it's called keeping your game up, so that if you end up single all of a sudden you can hook up with someone else right away. I fail miserably at this.
     
  22. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

    Joined:
    May 27, 2005
    Messages:
    1,501
    Likes Received:
    0
    If their boyfriend sees them flirting with other guys he knows that they are desired by other men, and this creates competition/attraction. Same thing happens when guys get IOIs in front of their girlfriends... they notice this stuff and work a little harder to keep them around.
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,592
    Likes Received:
    5
    Could be just an outgoing nature. I'm a flirt at heart, or at least most people take it that way because I'm super outgoing and friendly to anyone I meet. But it's pretty typical. Girls want validation. So if some guy is showing them attention that maybe they aren't getting they get excited. Guys do the same fucking thing.
     
  24. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 11, 2004
    Messages:
    4,413
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NOVA
    Most mature men would consider it harmless because he knows she is coming home with him, unless he is not aware of it because he's an idiot.

    My SO can flirt with men and I don't care. I am 110% secure in my relationship with her to know that she's just getting a little ego boost, is laughing at the *idiot* lines these monkeys come up with, and that she probably can't find another man with whom she has better all-around chemistry and fun with. She also knows that if there is any physical contact, she can expect me to step in. In actuality, she knows that if she initiates physical contact with some guy, she likely will never see me again, so she is very careful. I'm nobody's fool.
     
  25. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,592
    Likes Received:
    5
    Exactly! I've seen my SO flirt with girls in front of me just because he's naturally like that; but I never get that upset because I know we're going home together. And even when I've caught myself being flirty I think how it means nothing cause I only want my bf.
     
    Last edited: Dec 26, 2006

Share This Page