Why do girls turn into complete assholes?

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  1. tubachris85x

    tubachris85x New Member

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    I honestly don't get it.

    This one girl, who was my old roomate's GF (there was no interest, just to be clear) My buddy was (still?) away at training and she needed help moving out of her place. Before this, she was sick like crazy and I shuttled her around for almost a full week (despite myself, having moved out and living in hotels for a month full of crap in my car ACROSS TOWN), and on top of that, helped her move a good portion of her stuff out. The following week, she asks me to hang out with her, and we just watch old school horror flicks, and everything is dandy.

    The next morning, I just text her to see what she was up to, and the one last text I recieved from her, was "No one likes u," and she pretty much ignored me since then, for reasons that I do not know.

    Second girl. Since I moved back down to SoFL, I started hanging out with a new friend, and the other day, he invited me to go to the HardRock casino to hang out with 2 other girls he knew, both single. I had a fucking blast and everything was great. One of the girls I was clicking fairly well (or so I thought) with, I guess you would consider her the "lesser" attractive of the two. Anyways, she seemed into me, even my buddy thought she was checking me out the whole night.

    So tonight, I was hanging with my buddy, and we were talking to the one girl (online) who we both thought was into me. He suggests that I ask her out, and I felt the same, and so I do. She responds "only as friends." I'm like "okay, I respect your desicion." My buddy was really surprised at this. But, since she said that, I really had no more interest, and walked out of the room for a bit, and my buddy decided to ask her why, and I came back in and she had said, "I'm only used to going out with attractive guys and I am waiting until I find someone who's more handsome." Mind you, she's barely a 6. I'm ugly, but damn, I am not THAT ugly.

    Christ
     
  2. Ferrari430

    Ferrari430 New Member

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    Girl #1: Based on what you wrote, I agree she's an immature asshole.

    Girl #2: She may be average/ugly, but she has standards and just because you don't meet them, it doesn't make her an asshole. Shallow maybe, but not an asshole. If anything, you should be grateful for her not wasting your time. Would you want to date a girl that "was a 6" and to top it off wasn't willing to give someone a chance?
     
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    Zourn 16-bit Ninja OT Supporter

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    She could've at least said something more tactful like "you're not my type" instead of just "you ugly"
     
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    tubachris85x New Member

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    Girl 2, came off as really nice and sweet when I first met her. I *thought* there was potential, but I don't think she needed to tell me straight forward that she thinks Im ugly. Hell, I could have said something like that to her, but I didnt, and she didn't need to either
     
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    I assumed she was saying that to your friend, without the intention of you finding out.
     
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    tubachris85x New Member

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    she knew I was there though. Me and him were switching out during the convo. Just because I physically walked out of the room dosnt mean that I said I left to her online. Wether or not my buddy stated that it was "him" asking the question and not "me" asking it after, I can't say. Either way, she said that.

    My buddy seem's more pissed about it then I do for some reason, but he's known her for a few years
     
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    Girl 1 used you to give her a hand so she didn't have to do it all herself and is an ass hole.

    Girl 2 IS an ass hole, not for not liking you but for the fact that she doesn't have common decency to be nice about the way she speaks with you.
     
  8. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    girl 1 just used you, you probably jumped at the chance to help her out.

    sooo you aren't her type. What's the problem ?
     
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    so they are assholes cause they dont like you?
     
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    this thread is pathetic.

    you sound like an uncool female.
     
  11. antihero

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    thats some pretty harsh stuff. You think thats an acceptable way to treat someone just because you arent attracted to them? :ugh:
     
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    what if he is ugly? :hsugh:
     
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    I thought honesty was the best medicine. or maybe it was codeine fuck i dont know
     
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    I prefer perocet. :rofl:
     
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    :mamoru:
     
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    they didnt do anything to him. it doesnt make them assholes at all. he is being overly sensitive or completely oblivious to the fact that the girls never liked him in the first place
     
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    holy ego crush from chick #2. :hug:
     
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    people preach honesty but in the end we dont want ALL of it.
    it is rude to tell a guy that he is ugly. i could see if he was being a pushy asshole. but for no reason? :ugh:
     
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    havent we heard this same sad story from him before?
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    she didnt tell him, she told his friend. plus, we dont know the whole story. maybe he wasnt being pushy, we dont know

    i think so.
     
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    I don't see what was wrong with either girl.

    They saved you a lot of time, money and heart break by rejecting you out right. Had they gone out with you, gotten you hopes up, THEN rejected you, you'd probably be in a bigger world of hurt. Your attitude is COMPLETELY wrong. You are expecting them to date you, as if they owe you something. They don't owe you shit.

    Girl #1: You helped her move, she needed a strong body which you willingly donated. She decided that you weren't popular enough to earn the prestige of porking her, and she cut you loose brutally. She coulda been less of a bitch about it, but life sucks, move on.

    Girl #2: Just because she isn't as a pretty as her friend, and she flirted with you doesn't mean she has to date you/sleep with you. She may not be that hot, but some slightly less attractive girls have mastered the ability to pull guys outside their league. Personal choice. I wouldn't call you an asshole if you rejected a 300 lbs woman. You shouldn't call this girl an asshole for rejecting you, ya whiney vagina.

    Hit the gym, read the style section of mens magazines, and boost your ego accordingly. Then throw yourself out there again, hopefully with a better attitude and understanding of the dating game.

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting rejected, it's just the name of the game. If you can't handle rejection, then you might as well just pay for companionship and sex. :o
     
  22. BoomBoomBoy

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    People can be mean.

    They just weren't into you.
     
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    Better to get rejected like this then some other more bs way
     
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    Seems like you've been hanging around immature girls.

    Girl 1 is obvious.

    Girl 2 doesn't yet understand the difference between ugly and not attractive to herself. I rarely ever call anyone ugly because girls I dont think are attractive other people I know wouldn't think twice about hooking up with. There are girls I find REALLY attractive and many of my friends go :ugh:. I can only assume that no matter how atrocious I find a girl, someone is going to think she's awesome. After all, there aren't BBW and "Ugly" girl porn sights strictly for humor. :rofl:
     
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    tubachris85x New Member

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    I think some of you guys are missing the point.

    The first girl I've known for about two years. She was MY ROOMATE'S GF. I had NO interest in persuing her. She told me many times that I was exactly like her brother and that she was my "friend," yadda yadda.

    I'm pissed because of all that shit I did for her, and then after hanging out together, thinking everything was cool, she just says that out of nowhere? She basically betrayed me as a "friend."

    Girl 2. All I did was simply ask her out, thats it. She clearly knew that I was with my buddy during the conversation, and said that. I don't give a shit if she likes me or not (especially now) but I don't need her to call me ugly for no reason. She came off as a nice a sweet girl, but then this. Fuck her
     

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