Why do girls try to contacting you after breaking up?

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  1. epracmetcon

    epracmetcon New Member

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    Ex of a week keeps trying to contact me on my computer. Why do women do this?

    FYI she broke up with me.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Women are bat shit crazy.
     
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    She wants to know that she still has an emotional hold over you
     
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    epracmetcon New Member

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    I know this. Things were good, we were talking about getting married. She told me what day she wanted to. Then bam, week later were done.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    ding ding ding.
     
  7. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    She's just checking to see if you are OK.

    I had an ex do this too when she broke up with me.

    Don't be surprised to find out a year later she got married.
     
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    no she's not checking to see if he's ok. IF she is its only to put her own self consciuos at ease. not bc she cares.


    she's doing it bc she wants to keep a hold of him in case the reason she left him does not work out/she changes her mind.


    cut off all contact with her and explain to her it is bc YOU need it in order to move on. worked very well for me.
     
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    she wants to keep in contact incase she wants to come back
     
  10. epracmetcon

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    I have a feeling this is it right here.
     
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    I agree with the bat shit crazy comment above...
     
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    Men do this just as much, just read through the threads in the Vag. People like to know others are thinking of them, even if they have no intention of doing anything with that person anymore.
     
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    definitely this
     
  14. LoriLove

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    We do some crazy shit... and 99.9% of the time we KNOW it.
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    This isn't a new thing.

    The girl broke up with you because she was interested in another guy. This is a fact we already know.

    She's doing what millions upon millions of girls do-keeping you in contact so if/when the new guy & their relationship fail she can go back to you since you are still pining for her.

    Knowing this should only piss you off and make you realize that she's no different than many other women. Knowing this should force you to block her contact.
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    If you were optimistic you would conclude that she just doesn't want to burn bridges.

    That is why I stay in contact.

    But let's not be optimistic, not in the vag :noes:
     
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    Bingo. You should ask her for her best friends number.
     
  18. Franco

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    bat shit crazy.

    and this.
     
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    so in :mad: ..been single almost a week and it seems she's making more effort to contact me than when we were together :o
     
  20. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    In which case it would behoove you to respond to her with "I'm not some emasculated little pussy, you wanted us to be done, we're done. Move on like I have, bitch."

    :bigthumb:
     
  21. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    :werd: Leave me once, shame on you. Leave me twice? Shame on me. There are no such thing as second chances, either you're in or you're out.
     
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    "Second chances, they don't ever matter, people never change..."

    Yeah, I just quoted them...
     
  23. antihero

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    I would counter that regularly contacting someone the week after dumping them is an effective method of bridge burning. There is no compassionate and unselfish rationale, so one must conclude that someone who would cause further distress and further delay recovery is acting either out of inconsiderate self interest or malice.
     
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    lol. not my style, but i bet the look on her face would be worth seeing her one last time to say this in person. :rofl:
     
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    The same reason guys do it. ;)
     

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