why do girls fake orgasms?

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  1. filho do deus

    filho do deus New Member

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    I care about a girls pleasure as much as the next guy. I don't care if she doesn't cum because she cant, I care If I'm doing something wrong.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Cause she didnt want to hurt your feelings :rofl:
     
  3. filho do deus

    filho do deus New Member

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    Thanks for bringing this up, it wont hurt my feelings. I actually dont really care :dunno: So why lie?
     
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    CorpseStreet New Member

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    They don't want to emasculate you by outright admitting that you suck at sex and should practice more on your blow up doll. Besides if a guy sucked I might just want to be done with it and pretend I'm having an orgasm rather than saying I'm bored with him.
     
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    Dahlia Active Member

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    This. And sometimes it just isn't going to happen. And all guys think they need to try forever to get it to happen.
     
  6. saosko

    saosko OT Supporter

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    It's a quick way of saying 'get off me' without saying it.
     
  7. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    this, I faked just once or twice in my life for this exact reason!
     
  8. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    Sometimes they just take sooooooo long.
     
  9. Abomb

    Abomb New Member

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    that depends.


    whats an orgasim?
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    I dunno... but we do know girls fake it whatever it is...
     
  11. filho do deus

    filho do deus New Member

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    firefox spell check didnt underline it :fawk:
     
  12. filho do deus

    filho do deus New Member

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    I just fuck till I cum :dunno:
     
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    Dahlia Active Member

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    Well you are one person I'm glad I won't be having sex with.
     
  14. Falconer

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    because they want to reinforce bad habits in their guy.

    It is 100000x better to say "baby it's not gonna happen this time, i want you to cum" than it is to fake it.

    100000x.
     
  15. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :werd:
     
  16. Viper

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    I think you hit the nail on the head here.

    I think a lot of guys (and I'm just as guilty as any) think that they need to fuck til she orgasms. The problem with that is that it puts undo pressure on her to orgasm, which actually makes it harder for her to orgasm. Imagine someone pressuring you (the guy) to cum when you just aren't feeling it. Isn't busting that load like trying to drag a dead moose across the Serengeti? (But funnily enough we'll go to those lengths to get a nut, won't we? :rofl:)

    I'm (slowly) learning that sex to a woman is a lot more than just an orgasm. And there are many different types of sex, and not all of them involve orgasm. And going longer than a half hour in one session is just too long (for both of you).

    When a guys says "I want to fuck all night long" it usually means just that. He's wants to physcially have his dick in a vagina all night long.

    When a girl says "I want to fuck all night long" it usually means in 15 to 20 increments, with a whole lot of getting a sandwich, chilling for a few minutes together, kissing, tickling, wrestling, etc.

    That's what I've learned so far, anyway.
     
  17. more off

    more off Moderator

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    to get the sweaty dude off of them already
     
  18. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:

    That is very true!
     
  19. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Because guys are more likely to finish if they know the chick has. Or the view of a chick coming can lead them to bust. Either way it is over and done with :)
     
  20. vodka_lover

    vodka_lover OT Supporter

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    i never fake orgasms :ugh: nor do i care if i have one or not
    sex itself is enjoyable... i would much rather have sex with a great guy and not have an orgasm than give one to myself solo
     
  21. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Try using your fingers and tongue.
     
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    :werd: she probably wants to go watch Judge Judy
     
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    Eh I never fake it. I pretty much just say what he just put in quotes.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    My kinda woman. :h5:
     
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