I don't understand, and hope I'm not alone. I am simply EXTREMELY uncomfortable with alchohol. But it reaches it's peak when it involves my girlfriend drinking. In fact, when my friends drink, I don't really care. But I don't want to drink and I am really afraid of the thought of my girlfriend drinking. She turns 21 on Saturday, and I am really nervous about it. I don't even know why. She's going to go drink with her friends, and I don't want to have a problem with it, but I do. Why can't I just get over it?! I feel horrible about being a burden on her shoulders, and it's affecting our relationship. I want to go get help, but I don't even know where to start. So I'm starting here. Please only positive comments.. as I said, I don't WANT to have a problem with it, but I do.