Who is "in control" during a blowjob?

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Who is in control during a blowjob? (explain your answer below)

  1. The man

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    10.9%
  2. The woman

    60 vote(s)
    59.4%
  3. Neither (it's equal)

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    29.7%
  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Vote and post your thoughts.
     
  2. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I don't see the act of a blowjob in itself having anything to do with who's in control.

    My lover and I set it up psychologically. Without roleplay the control is equal. With roleplay the control depends on the roles.
     
  3. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    I vote for the woman.
     
  4. antihero

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    Id say it can clearly go either way. A blowjob isnt a blowjob isnt a blowjob.

    ie. man tied to the bed and teased vs. ponytail grip facefucking.
     
  5. ww_Crimson

    ww_Crimson New Member

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    Yeah, I'd say it's mutual.. can definitely go either way as mentioned above.
     
  6. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    . I agree. It could go either way, but I prefer to be in control. My fiancee loves the way I give him jb nonetheless.
     
  7. mondaynightmike

    mondaynightmike New Member

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    The women, as if she wants to she can bite my bell of and thats the end of me.
     
  8. Falconer

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    Win.

    You know, I thought of this as soon as I posted my thread.
     
  9. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    depends, is your hand on her head?
     
  10. Abomb

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    her girlfriend is usually in control of my bjs :sexy:
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: I can't ever think of a time that the guy had any control in what I was doing to him.
     
  12. kiri

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    the woman.

    "you may be on your knees, but you've got him by the balls." :mamoru:
     
  13. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    lol when im about to cum i grab my girlfriends head and make sure she doesnt take a 'break'
     
  14. Viper

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    Stop looking at it in terms of control.
     
  15. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Control is hot
     
  16. Falconer

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    I was just curious.
     
  17. Falconer

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    Ever been skull fucked*?











    *for lack of better term
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    No. I do what I do well. I've never even so much as had a guy grab my head and try to move it :dunno:
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah, ok :hsugh:
     
  20. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    You are so dom
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: He only cums on my command :rofl:
     
  22. Abomb

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    you should experience a good skull fucking at least once in your life :naughty:
     
  23. kronik85

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    i said neither, just because neither dominates all the time.
     
  24. NCS

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    psychologically the man is (she is pleasing him). physically its the woman.
     
  25. illmaceyougood

    illmaceyougood New Member

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    The jaw is part of the skull.
     

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