Who here is actually happy with their relationship?

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  1. LS Boy

    LS Boy OT Supporter

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    ....after reading this THREAD

    i notice that most of peoples problems are their relationship.


    i must say, im unhappy with mine right now too and i wanna break up with my gf (broke up 3times in the last 4months already :ugh: )





    so whos happy and whos not?
    how long you been together?
     
  2. Mutilus

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    Ooh I am, now that is ended after 13 years.
     
  3. LS Boy

    LS Boy OT Supporter

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    so you ended it with your SO of 13years :noes:


    ive been with my gf for 4months and i thought thats already alot of time invested :hsd:
     
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    Well I was married and we just recently divorced.
     
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    I'm happy with my relationship. Can things improve? Sure.. things can always improve, and this goes with anything else, too. But there isn't anything I would CHANGE. BTW, been with my SO for over two years.
     
  6. jennybop

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    Well, if anyone read my thread im obviously not happy with my "relationship" and we have been "together" for about 15 months. Im ready to end this unhealthy relationship. Cant take anymore.
     
  7. hayte997

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    I'm not happy and we've been together for 5 months. We always get along great, she's extremly attractive/good in bed so I think that's the reasons I stay with her. I'm not in love and don't feel any attachment towards her at all.. Honestly, I'm hoping I can become attached/in love with time cause she is a really nice girl.
     
  8. LS Boy

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    we are TOTALLY the same!!!

    my gf is really hot (thats why if i break up with her, shes gonna be hard to beat physically) and right now, im looking more into SERIOUS relationship, not this high school drama crap. and shes just not cutting it anymore.
     
  9. hayte997

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    Yeah, do you ever wonder why she's with you? I do. I mean I'd say I'm attractive but this girl is like model hot, perfect body, perfect skin, perfect face, good personality.. All of my GF's have been pretty but my current GF is FINE!
    I want a serious relationship and so does she (she's in love) but I just don't feel any attachment towards her.. I have never been in love though.
     
  10. LS Boy

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    well, i must say (even others) say that we look cute together. :o

    as far as her being in love with me---she hasnt said it and i havent either.

    thing is, theres is things that she does that makes me dont trust her (for some reason, i do---but i think im in denial--and that i dont trust her)


    we've been together for 4months and i have yet to met any of her friends or family. its sooo weird. and she owns her own place, and i can barely come over there. :sad2:


    i know shes hiding sometihng and i keep fronting her that, but she keep saying that she isnt----so i dont what to believe and what to do :wtc:
     
  11. Tornado6

    Tornado6 When the wind set down in funnel form and pulled y

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    I am currently in the best relationship I've ever been in. It isn't always perfect, but we communicate well, which is the key to everything. We've been together for 2 1/2 years now. I'm pretty unhappy with a lot of other things in my life right now, since I just got laid off yesterday. At least I have him to help me get through the crappy bits of life. He's always a bright spot, even on the worst days.

    The bad relationships you have earlier in your life are training for the real thing, I think.
     
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    I'm very happy in my relationship. We've been together almost 7 years.
     
  13. Isolt78

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    I've been married for a couple months, and was "involved" for about 2 years before that. So far, so good. :big grin:
     
  14. BTA

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    Perfectly happy, only about a year though here.
     
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    I'm very happy with mine, 1 year in so far.
     
  16. The Secretary

    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    I have been with my so for about 15 months, we have had one hell of a ride to. I love him with all my heart and ditto for him. We are proof that people can make long distance relationships work, though sometimes its not all warm and cozy. We are working on the whole seeing each other more often thing. Congrats to those who are in a happy relationship and to those who arent I hope you find yours.
     
  17. ISO9002

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    never happy in my relationship...feel sorry for myself to say...all my ex-gfs and current one are always attractive to many guys...likewise i am attracted to/from a lot of girls too....thats why its always hard since we are always both jealous of each other's attractiveness to others....always got into a fight over jealousy...SIGH~
     
  18. Vegasoutkast

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    weve been together 12yrs .... I am for the most part very happy.
    there a few things that I would like to be different.

    but no one is perfect or will ever be or do everything you want.
    you just end up trading one problem for another.
     
  19. Takumi

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    I'm pretty happy in my current relationship. We've been together about 8 months.

    The only other relationship I have to compare to is a 3 year relationship with my ex. The new girl (and new relationship) is much much much better, although we do have our ups and downs.
     
  20. Julu

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    11 years in June...living together for almost 10 years

    Very happy!!;)

    Take the good with the bad and work with it:naughty:

    Ju
     
  21. Chrissy

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    that's wonderful!!

    i've been with my guy for a year on April 20th and it's great. we moved in together a little early but we talked that through a few months ago and it's been really good since:hsd:
     
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    i'm happy 19 months...
     
  23. Lad

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    Im perfectly content.... 8 months.
     
  24. mrs0323

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    At this point, no, but we had a huge knock-down drag out last night and I said some pretty cruel things to him. Things I felt were true but wished I could take back. We are in a difficult situation, both of us married to other people and the stress can be horrendous. When it is good, which is 95% of the time, it is by far the best, most fulfulling, most comfortable relationship I have ever been. When it is bad, i.e. last night, it can be gut wrenching, soul rending, heartbreaking. I've spent the entire day wondering if it can be repaired. And terrified that it cannot.
     
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