SRS where can i meet girls

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  1. michaele36

    michaele36 New Member

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    i'm 17, i go to a drop out prevention program and there arent any hot girls.

    where can i meet women? I fell the despret need for a girl friend. someone told me to try myspace and i'm not opposed to the idea but i just don't know how u can come across as not bein creapy. i've looked around myspace before and some of those girls are fine.

    oh and please dont suggest clubs because i'm not the partier type.
     
  2. The Militant

    The Militant THE FUTURE

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    anywhere lol, its all about your confidence level and wether or not you approach them. Ive met girls getting an icecream at baskin robins or just walkin to get some food
     
  3. michaele36

    michaele36 New Member

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    u see what u like and then what?

    I mean i'm shy so its hard.
     
  4. White_Hype

    White_Hype Guest

    www.fastseduction.com

    read that stuff but be your own person (don't become a robot spewing out shit)... use this to get comfortable talking with girls everywhere then start refining your skill to make connections with people rapidly.

    Don't knock it, the shit really works (I know from experience)
     
  5. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Step outside your door, take pause and look around - there are girls everywhere.
     
  6. johan

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    well, as regards the 'coming across as not creepy' you might want to pull back on the 'desperate need for a girlfriend' vibe you probably give off right now.

    My advice would be to try and improve your life, for yourself. Try to get involved in fun, SOCIAL activities that you like and enjoy.

    And by social, I don't mean a D&D marathon on your friend's basement with a bunch of other guys. I mean something fun that gets you out in the world.

    You'll meet girls as a natural consequence -- they are everywhere. Improve your life and you gain happiness naturally and the girls will follow suit. That situation takes care of itself pretty much.

    Go hunting solely for girls without work on the other areas of your life, and yes, you might find one or two, but you'll meet a better quality of person if you improve your own life first.

    People always naturally gravitate towards others of similar "kind" whether its your station in life, your outlook, your status, etc.


    So when people ask me, how can I score a hot girlfriend? A fun girlfriend? A cool girlfriend? An awesome girlfriend?

    Try becoming hot, fun, cool and awesome yourself, FIRST.

    If you don't currently think of yourself this way, why would a hot, fun, cool, awesome girl want to be with you?
     
  7. michaele36

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    its the part of finding them. i give up i'm so pissed
     
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    You still don't get it.

    Once you improve yourself, and take part in fun, social activities, THEY FIND YOU.

    You're around girls all day, everywhere you go. Right now, they probably look right past you because the product is unappealing.

    Make the product appealing and the customers will come to YOU. Get it?
     
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    And to be clearer on the "product" analogy....

    Right now, maybe you're a beat up old pickup truck with rusty panels, missing windows and dinette seats instead of car seats. No one wants that vehicle, or the few that do...are probably missing a few teeth.

    Make yourself into a nice little sensible hatchback, and some equally sensible people might want that. That's a start.

    Make yourself into a sleek BMW or Lexus that's going places, and more people want that. Curiously the type and quality of people that want that also improve.

    Make yourself into a nice Merc SL500, that not only do people want that, but now you're into a whole different type of potential customer, aka suitor.


    So here it is.

    You DO have the power to change yourself from a rusty beat up old pickup type of guy that just "gets by", into a sleek intelligent, educated, successful, powerful type of guy.

    THEY will come to you. You can't get that quality type of girl by any other means. Be it. Live it. And they will seek you out.
     
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    I can't express anything else as I'm speechless.. Johan once again has put it PERFECTLY!! WELL SAID!! :) Listen to her advice.. good stuff.
     
  11. michaele36

    michaele36 New Member

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    thank you. but heres my question. i do plan on improving myself, i'm going to get a haircut, tan, try to lose some weight. but should i use myspace to get chicks because how are they going to come to me if there isnt any around?
     
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  12. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    "His" advice :big grin:
     
  13. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    I think the improvement aspect just completely went over your head on this one. It's not just about your personal appearance... its about everything..

    Myspace would be the last place I would look for "quality" girl... and what all-male town do you live in?
     
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    ok i get it. its not JUST appearance. i live an hour south of tampa fl and its not that theres no girls in this town theres just none at my school
     
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    No Way!? Johan is a dude? I always thought she was a chick.. oh man!! So many times I believe I've referred to her as a woman.

    And to Michael,

    Myspace isn't exactly the perfect place to go looking for chicks.. yeah, to a certain extent to make friends and network and maybe find chicks you can meet but the real way to do it would be to go out there and explore the world and meet real people in person... hell, even your local grocery store is a good place to start.. you're there looking at what kind of milk to buy and next thing you know is a chick next to ya and you ask for her opinion about which one to choose and this little method can be done with any product around the store where you see women.. after you get the recommendation from them, you can ask other questions to help "break the ice".. "So, you shop here often?".. just a little thing like that can help.

    Just gotta let the nerves be put to the side and get some balls and bring some confidence.. workout, take care of yourself, you should be golden. :)
     

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