I need your guys' help I thought I was over this insecurity... but I'm beginning to realize that I'm not. Quick background info: - I'm 5'4" - 5'5" - filipino - have been told numerous times i'm a pretty stocky guy who just by looking at me... you can tell i go to the gym. I just effin hate being short. I feel like the world automatically disqualifies me due to my height. All of the successfuly people I know of personally, or read about are tall. I don't know of ANY girls who would consider a guy shorter than she is. All the short girls i know are either interested in, or are already with a tall guy. Some people, not all... treat me inferiorly and think they can get away with certain things just because i'm short. This past weekend at the club, I went to this new place with a different crowd (aka a place where everyone was exceptionally taller than me). And I have never felt so miniscule, so irrelevant, and so ... i don't even know the word... in a long time. Basically... I had a bunch of tall dudes cut in front me... "you don't mind if we cut in front of you right?" and gives me a pat on the shoulder. Typical frat assholes. (I was by myself meeting up with some friends) and I knew I didn't stand a chance to these guys. What's a short guy to do in this situation? I go to get a drink at the bar... and basically the same shit... people shoving me outta the way, etc... and I'm not really one to make a scene. Perhaps I should have, I dunno. But it's been a bunch of shit like that and just general observations in life that has me insecure about my shortness again. I was over it... or at least thought I was over in the past when i started working out and putting on some muscle. Maybe this past weekend just sent me over the edge... but now I just don't know how to get over this insecurity. Anyone have any suggestions?