Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by IAMHERENOWv0.0, Sep 17, 2007.
You are Male.
Is it the pocketbook?
Probably what guy is going to provide her security.
I'll second that.
Granted I'm 28 and my current SO is 24 ... but Security is a big issue.
So the pocketbook?
no.. physical security
Security as in what??
btw, who uses the word "mamacita"?????
i so did not even understand the question
"security" wont get you in the door.
You need personality to make the first contact, then your other qualities come into play if you want to keep her.
same thing that always gets the girl and keeps her: the way you make her feel
women don't need physical security anymore...its not the middle ages...anything u need can be hired out for $$$, including muscle. However, being physically appealing is a huge plus.
I would say loyalty. What I mean is someone who isn't going to fuck around with your emotions and your time, etc. I can see stability and security both falling into this category as well.
But, I think it depends on the woman. A 27-30 year old who still likes to part and act crazy is probably going to look for similar in a male, versus a grown up woman who is looking for a mature-acting partner.
What matters to women? I think most women just look for a guy that has the type of life she wants to be part of. Meaning, financial stability (doesn't have to make a fortune, but isn't constantly finding himself in hardship), emotional stability (isn't hung up on someone else, don't have commitment issues...), confident but not overly so (knows he's a good guy but doesn't act with a sense of entitlement), honest (isn't going to lead you on or use you), and fun to be around (similar hobbies or interests, good sense of humor). Easier said that done I suppose...
so If I get a JOB as a Security Guard, she'll let me in right...!!!