So this friend of mine insists on asking me for relationship advice. She lives in Denver and is in a long distance relationship with a guy in San Francisco. She's known this guy for a long time and they finally decided to get together. So she wants to tell him she loves him and is asking me if she should do it over the phone. Is that acceptable? Or should she wait until she goes out there again (in November)? I think she should wait. This is along the same lines as breaking up with somebody. Best to do it face to face. What dos the Vag think?