I've been with my gf for 2 years now. We currently live together and it's nothing but a rollercoaster. I can sit here and write for hours about how many arguments we've had over ridiculous things such as jealousy, insecurity, differences. I won't bore you with that, but I find it necessary to mention the bigger problem. It's about our families. So, with 2 years, you've introduced your SO to your family several times, right? Well, I have but I feel like nobody in my family knows her. At every family get-together, my girlfriend remains arms crossed and silent. She's told me in the past that she sees my family as stuck-up, judgmental and hypocritical. My family is religious (Christian), but not extreme or forceful to others. Without being biased, I think they're great people, and I am not religious at all. I've contemplated on leaving her just with the family issues alone. We've left multiple family get-togethers simply because she looked bored, upset or had some bullshit excuse to go. BUT WAIT, when it comes to her family, we're always there the whole time and she's a chatterbox. Is this grounds for a break-up? Am I asking for too much when I expect my SO to be more involved with my family?