When masturbating.................

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  1. rkf76

    rkf76 New Member

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    do you use visual aides to help the process or do you just use your imagination?

    Reason im asking is because me and my ex would get into some really heated discussions about masturbation. My sex drive was alot higher than hers and I'd need to take matters into my own hands, literally, and she hated it due to the fact that I'd look at pRon while handling my business. She said it make her feel like I was cheating on her. Discuss.
     
  2. King Ralph

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    I used my imagination for the first year or so, but visual imagery ever since.
     
  3. D

    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    I haven't masturbated all that much since my man moved in. Once in awhile when he's not around, or crashed.
     
  4. BoredVersion

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    She could have just given you photos of herself nude for you to use...then that would have solved the whole "you look at porn for that!" issue...but I suppose nudies have the downfall of being potential blackmail in the event of any break-up.
     
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    I like videos. I actually have a bit of trouble coming without visual aids
     
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    For me, it's more in the still picture deparment. I have a pretty vivid imagination, so just a mere image to work off of does the trick for me. :hs:
     
  8. BlindSyde

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    visuals about what the SO and I would be doing. Porn gets dull/boring
     
  9. THT

    THT The easy way is always mined

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    Porn. GF knows and thinks it's somewhat amusing. But then again, when she's around, no need for it.
     
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    Repost PENCIL DICK

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    Have her touch herself in front of you?
     
  11. chlywly

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    Usually visual aids because I can't be bothered to masturbate for pleasure anymore, its a simple release... back in the day I used to fantasize :)
     
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    Imagination.

    Used to use pornographic pictures, stills, but not very often.
     
  13. rkf76

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    my ex wasn't amused in the least....she despised it so much, she got on the computer, found my pRon collection and deleted it all.
     
  14. Evil Unicorn

    Evil Unicorn Lurk but Don't Touch

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    I'm a girl and I can just think about the things me and my SO do/did and get off on that. Every now and again I'll bring out the p0rn. But for the most part I use my imagination.
     
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    i dont care if the guy watches porn, or how much he does it as long as i get sex occasionally (more the better).

    im 50/50 on it...sometimes i watch, sometimes i read, sometimes i just lay in bed...
     
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    Is that a 1993 Subaru Legacy??
     
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    what a bitch... i think that's ridiculous it isn't cheating at all.
     
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    I like visual to get it going but after that it is all memory of past experiences. But I do love to hear porn I like audio better than visual
     
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  20. RockChick

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    i like watching porn, sometimes.... but sometimes imagination is enough. depends on how horny i am. and i use my bfs porn collection, tho i have to admit its rather boring, lol.
     
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    Does she also feel cheated when you masturbate?

    :rofl:

    I am cool with my SO watching porn and I know he watches a lot of it. I am not as visually stimulated as he is. Porn usually is best used to warm me up, but I don't think it really brings me to orgasm. I think sometimes it makes it harder to concentrate.
     
  22. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    I like both. And they both have their uniqeness to them. My favorite tho is probably videos with girls that resemble girls that I like or have dated in real life.
     
  23. rkf76

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    LOL

    this is one of the reason's I broke up with her. When defending myself on this subject, I played the "at least im not out gettin' it from someone who wants to give it up" card, as well as the "it's the safest sex in the world" card, and finally the "then give it up whenever I want it or shut up" card. None of em made any difference to her. I couldn't understand it for the life of me.
     
  24. Mojo

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    damn, thats kinda creepy lol.
     
  25. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    your ex must be really insecure to consider you watching pr0n as cheating...but i like to use both...sometimes if the boyfriend is tired, he'll at least talk dirty or help with a finger or two
     

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