When kissing your SO in bed do you use tongue?

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  1. jagman

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    What does it matter? Do what feels good and appropriate for you in YOUR relationship.
     
  3. Horror

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    I did with my ex. But, it varied. Passionate sex we would do like swooping motions (can't describe it, sort of like the kissing in Starship Troopers), and then for rough it'd be all game.
     
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    You mean if you're just laying there in bed together?

    Sometimes. It depends if it's a little kiss or a big kiss.
     
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    If sex is coming, tongue. If going to sleep, no tongue.
     
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    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Second on that!
     
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  8. sometimes yes, others no. depends on our mood.
     
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    it varies. why do you ask?
     
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    I only kiss my boyfriend with tongue when I want to have sex.
     
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    are you a sociopath?
     
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    :ugh:
     
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    it sounds very calculated on her part... i like it :naughty:
     
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    I think we pretty much always use tongue unless its a quick hi/goodbye peck. Does anyone ever have a prolonged kiss sans tongue?
     
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    We use tongue. We don't clean each others throat out and using too much tongue is a turn off for me. But we definitely play tonsil hockey. Doesn't matter it is is during sex, foreplay, or a kiss around the house. We wouldn't use tongue in public. Most of the time it is just a longing kiss on the lips when saying hello and goodbye, or having a cuddle.
    With three kids you can't just have a pash in the middle of the kitchen. But doing it is funny, we get they "Awwww muuuuuum, daaaaaaaaaad, yuck!" hehehe
     
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    tongue always love swapping spit
     
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    Use it? I lick, twirl, suck, tease, flick, pull and twist with it. When my girlfriend lets me anyway.
     
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    The only time my husband and I use tongue or during sex...

    Its nothing we plan, it just happens that way. I dont like making out in front of my kid.
     
  20. If it's more than just a goodnight peck, yes. <3 french kiss. :o
     
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    Sometimes we use tongue. Most of the time, it's just regular kissing of the lips or playing with each others lips. When we have sex or if something is leading to sex, then we make-out.
     
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    If we are getting frisky, yes. If its in passing or whatever, yes. If we are laying in bed watching TV, yes. I thoroughly enjoy sticking my tounge into her mouth to be honest, lol.

    Have you ever just licked someone tounge? Its a WONDERFUL texture
     
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    No, I'm not. I just prefer not to use tongue most of the time because I feel like kissing without it is sweeter. Plus, tongues gross me out. I don't seem to mind it as much when I'm in the mood.
     
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    Oh yeah and it is kind of calculated. What can I say? :naughty:
     
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    I don't usually kiss with tongue. If I do it's light. Otherwise it always feels forced.
     

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