when does one get borderline creepy lol

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  1. rnikec

    rnikec JINGMAO

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    Okay well last thread I made i was interested in a girl in my calc class. Well before the semester ended i ended up getting coffee and having lunch with her. I'm putting her on hold right now since were on break and between us its just a text/call thing for now.

    As of now i'm trying to get with a girl that was in my graduating class in HS. In HS everybody told me i should ask her out sometime. Well i was pretty much a pussy in highschool. I would occasionally hang out with her when we would do student council things.

    So now I wanna make a move and ask her to get some coffee or stupid shit like ice skating. I don't have her number and she goes to a different college than me. I poked her on FB ( lol corny ) and we had a really lite conversation about what we were gonna do on break. I told her "my plans will include sleeping eating working drinking and maybe hanging out with you."

    Am I creepy? I dont have her number and shes a fun girl to talk to/hangout with/and isn't boring like the other girls i hang out with around this fucking lame town. What should be my next move? Should i private message her on Facebook to meet up or her number or some shit? I don't know if this is borderline creepy..
     
  2. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    if you know her, then not really. Get her number.
     
  3. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    it's not creepy, but it's passive agressive. Man up and ask her out dude.
     
  4. ChaCha

    ChaCha Active Member

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    lol idk

    definitely put yourself out there though..
     
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    its not creepy, thats sort of pussy

    girls don't like that shit
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :werd:

    unrelated side point: "passive-aggressive" is technically the wrong phrase because it's not "aggressiveness." but i know what Viper means.
     
  7. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Perhaps I shoulda just said "passive." But yeah, you got what I meant so it's all good.
     
  8. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    just couldn't stop myself from making the semantic point :mamoru:

    OP, what Viper said. very passive-aggressive.
     
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    You should probably fuck the shit out of her.
     
  10. rnikec

    rnikec JINGMAO

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    yeah thats on my list, but i'm saying I dont know where this girl lives, i havent seen her once, no IM, just facebook.. how does one get a number without any way of interaction?
     
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    Falconer OT Supporter

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    You know, I still have trouble defining passive aggressiveness. I know it when I see it, but I can't ever give examples or definitions :o
     
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    meh, I like how you put that... "get coffee or stupid shit like ice skating." Coffee is great and all, but activities you can do together are much more fun. Take her ice skating where you can chit-chat and joke around while being active and showing her how fun you can be, and then cheese it up a little and be the nice guy to take her out for hot cocoa after.
     
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    not creepy at all IMO.

    Just ask her for her number and call her one day and ask her out
     
  14. rnikec

    rnikec JINGMAO

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    this is my message is it short and to the point? i called her shorty cause shes really is short lol.

    "hey merry christmas shorty i mean shirley =). wanted to know if u wanted to hang out sometime this break, i would ask you on the phone but i dont have ur number. coffee or ice skating sound any good :)? "

    is the last smiley face too much?
     
  15. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Bitches love smiley faces.
     
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    it'll probably work but I think you're trying too hard :dunno:

    gl tho
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    It's only creepy if she isn't interested.
     
  18. rnikec

    rnikec JINGMAO

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    really? like i feel i'm trying too hard when im actually confronting the girl face to face.. here it seems like i'm just nonchalantly asking her out to coffee..
    I mean i'm showing interest but i just wanna get together with her to find out more about her and get to know her better
     
  19. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Your inability to use proper grammar makes you sound like an idiotic tool. It doesn't take much extra effort to not sound unintelligent.

    "Hey Merry Christmas shorty--I mean Shirley :). Wanted to know if you wanted to hang out some time during the break; I would ask you on the phone but I don't have your number. Coffee or ice skating sound any good? :)"
     
  20. rnikec

    rnikec JINGMAO

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    It's just a simple message... are all girls grammar nazi's and find it unattractive?
     
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    exactly. if a girl is interested in a guy and wants him to approach her/contact her you can pretty much open with anything.
     
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    this girl I went to HS with got a call from her dental hygienist recently-- he got her number from her patient file and wanted to ask her on a date

    she was really creeped out but I couldn't help but think if he was some hunky guy she would have been like YESSSSS

    what he did was illegal IIRC and takes some sort of half-balls/half-weirdoness
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    in writing, passive-aggressiveness can look like sarcasm. but the tone is different. for example, let's say that your girlfriend's libido has dropped. she asks if you are upset that you've been fucking less than you used to. you are angry but instead of saying it directly, you say:

    "no, it's fine. i don't need that kind of thing anyway,"

    with a slightly sullen expression, and then go to the other room and intentionally ignore her for six hours, all the while "pretending" nothing is wrong.

    that is passive-aggressive.
     
  24. rnikec

    rnikec JINGMAO

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    well it seems like i have a date coming up..
    "Hey there. Ice skating scares me, sooo coffee anytime sounds good lol.
    (***) ***-**** give me a text when"

    lol
     
  25. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    :rofl:

    this will turn out amazing
     

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