When a girl keeps asking if I am mad at her...

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  1. newsroom_can

    newsroom_can Canada eh?

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    I was talking to this female of mine on a messenger. We haven't talk to each other for a while.

    Well, we were talking about some stuff. And she kept asking me if I am mad at her. I said no and I asked her why she thinks like that. And she said that she is not getting "the usual vibe" that she gets from me...

    What the fuck does that mean?
     
  2. Queenpkn

    Queenpkn New Member

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    it means your not paying enough attention to her.
     
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    newsroom_can Canada eh?

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    At least I was answering to her questions... what more does she want? :hsugh:
     
  4. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    ? Don't be a dick
     
  5. Queenpkn

    Queenpkn New Member

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    hmmmm, i think you need to post pics of her....i can tell you what she's really thinking if I see her first


    *nudes*
     
  6. newsroom_can

    newsroom_can Canada eh?

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    I don't think I have any pics of her... but I guess she's typical 20 something non-fat white chick with blonde hair average looking... :dunno:
     
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    We don't do pic requests in Vag, go read the rules... :gtfo:

    It means you are probably "down" or "boring." Tell her yes, make up something funny/cocky, then tease her. Don't address it directly, though, as that puts you in the friendzone.
     
  8. OoOlAlA

    OoOlAlA New Member

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    Its hard to tell someones mood over the internet. Maybe she is reading your responses like you are saying it rudely or something. My bf and I always mistake eachother over the net. Maybe she thinks you are also acting differently than you did before. She'll get over it.
     
  9. newsroom_can

    newsroom_can Canada eh?

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    That's why I posted this here. Well, I guess I am already in the friendzone and I am not that interested in her anyway, I guess.. :dunno:
     
  10. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    why are you IMing in the first place? Why not see her in person?
     
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    probably that you're either not paying enough attention to her, or that she wants to create some drama by having you get emotional over something.

    I'd respond with something like "I have nothing to be mad about" and then change the subject.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    lol, yep. In fact my SO is asleep next to me right now, and he wasn't being very attentive before he passed out and I kept thinking "why is he being so distant? Is something wrong? Fucking hormones...
     
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    were you being short? were you answering specifically with as few details? withholding details until specifically asked? not asking her return questions?


    many girls are fickle. :sad2:
     
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    Try using *smilies* in your messages to convey the meaning/feeling of your messages.
     
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    idleprocess Bring a dollar with you baby in the cold cold grou

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    I resisted using emoticons and the like for a long time ... until I realized that most people were taking me far too literally. Emoticon abuse is one thing, but a smilie, wink, or raspberry here and there helps a great deal.
     
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    newsroom_can Canada eh?

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    Yes. Just answered to questions that she was asking...
     

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