What's your mindset during sex?

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  1. Hay Zeus

    Hay Zeus New Member

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    I think if I had a mindset other than "OMG I'm in some pussy it feels so good" I could last a bit longer and have more fun in the sack...Do you guys focus on just getting her off, or focus on yourself, or what?
     
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    Depends on the mood... I believe I have gone through every mindset and thought during sex at one time or another...
    (alright maybe not 'every'...but alot :) )
     
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    i try not to think about it and just enjoy her moans and sexyness.
    u think about the situation too hard ur gunna blow ur load
     
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    i'm thinking "what's gonna make her moan again, whats gonna make her quiver" the whole time. my pleasure is a byproduct of hers.
     
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    I focus 100% on her. If I think about myself for one second, then out cums my load! Hah! Her moaning doesn't make things easier though! Hah!
     
  6. Hay Zeus

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    I'm thinking I need a more dominant mindset. Like "She gave up the pussy, my only duty is to fuck the shit out of it for her enjoyment, not mine"
     
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    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    What do you guys mean when you say focus on yourself makes you squirt fast?
    Explain what focusing on yourself is? You look at yourself?
     
  8. Atheist

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    Probably thinking about how good it feels.

    I'm still semi-new to it, so I still just try to think about ANYTHING but the sex. Like my leg on the carpet or something ;p

    Im getting a lot less worried about how long I last, which is making me last longer. It's seriously all mental, so I'm sure that in a while Ill be able to just focus on having fun and getting her off
     
  9. Kinga

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    It was quite funny on my first time... it was in my bedroom and obviously my dad heard us and of course he just had to say something being the bastard he is...

    "Dead Babies, Dead Babies!!"
     
  10. The Green Bastard

    The Green Bastard Click click click bang

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    I picture in my mind, swinging a hammer. It takes a lot of my mind, and I last 10x longer.
     
  11. Trickypants

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    All I'm thinking about is making her orgasm...
     
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    A swinging hammer?? Where on earth did that come from? LOL
     
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    Depends on the day, or session. :naughty:
     
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    The Green Bastard Click click click bang

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    Well, I'm a mechanic, and I picture myself swinging a hammer at a stuck brake drum. Makes me forget the happiness my penor is experiences.
     
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    LMAO.. I guess if we really knew what ran through your minds while we were having sex, we'd be horrified!
     
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    All I am thinking is how to please her to fullest without missing an inch of her body that haven't kissed and caressed.
     
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    i think "are her/my roomates awake?" ... :hsugh:
     
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    Well since it's my girlfriend of close to two years it's usually a light mood. A joke or two may be told and we may make a comment about hoping no one could hear us (roommates at first, now neighbors since I live alone). Sex should be fun not serious or a "job".
     
  20. Trickypants

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    Joking during sex is AWESOME! When you can find somebody who'll laugh at shit during sex you've got yourself a keeper...:bigthumb:

    For example:

    was with this girl one time, we had already fucked once, was kind of getting ready to go again. I was about 3/4's ready, she's on her back and I'm on top...she reaches down and starts jerking me off. So I'm there, kind of on my hands and knees while she's pulling away. I paused...looked down into her eyes and said 'I've never felt more like a cow in my entire life.'

    She did the :ugh: :rofl: :rofl: :hsugh: faces....then I said, 'well, it could have been worse, at first I was just gonna go 'moooooooooooooooo'...:mamoru:

    (oh...and :bowdown: to Makers...;) )
     
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    Ahahahaha Jake that's hilarous!
     
  22. Hay Zeus

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    so you guys jsut focus on something else? Unforfunately for me, my mind races all the time, so it's hard to keep a steady thought for long
     
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    I think "oh God, whenever you're trying to switch positions, don't think about losing your boner...dont think about losing your boner....if you think about it, it will go away." --- then I usually lose my boner and make out for about 10 minutes to try to get it back up.

    This happens whenever I actually care about the girl and am having sex with her for the first time.
     
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    but funny.
     
  25. Trickypants

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    I know, I know...but lots of new people in here...;)
     

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