What's Your Definition of Rough Sex?

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  1. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    My boyfriend and I got into a discussion about definitions of rough sex and we both have some different thoughts on it since some ppl can't take certain things and everyone defines it differently...

    What's your "definition" of what you consider to be rough???
     
  2. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    hard fucking, chocking, spanking hard, throat fuck etc...

    and now that we are on the subject, I noticed a lot of girls always want to say that they are just into rough sex, like it is gonna increase their appeal for guys(maybe it does..guys?). Personally I like to have all kinds of sex, rough, sensual and a lover who is just into one kind of sex is booooooooooring in my opinion.
     
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    I'm with Deborah.. HARD, fast fucking or just very hard fucking. ass smacking, biting, her digging her nails into me.. light choking (personally) / hair pulling. throat fucking falls into category but I always feel kind of bad about doing it unless im being egged on.

    The gf always wants it just about as hard as I can give it to her. It gets a little bit painful for me after a while cause I bottom out in most positions with her and it's a bit like poking the head of my cock into the wall over and over after a while.. it is a great workout though.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Like Deborah said. I think rough sex just involves more force and pseudo-violence. Slapping, choking, hair pulling, scratching, etc. Obviously it doesn't have to be all of these things to be considered rough, but I think the more you use the rougher it would be considered. :naughty:
     
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    Choking.

    Hair Pulling.

    Nails / Biting.

    Spanking

    Dom/Sub


    :drool:

    Man, shouldnt be thinking of this first thing in a monday morning, should i rethought what thread i'd visit first :o :naughty:
     
  6. antihero

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    it does.

    Though it hasnt happened to me, it definitely would be a problem if a girl was only into rough stuff
     
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    I've been with a lot of women who are into super rough sex lately and quite frankly it's turned me off a bit.. Of course in all likelihood this is because I don't really have any real feelings for them and I feel like it's just meat...

    Rough sex is best for me, when I am in love with someone, as weird as that is.. Maybe just sex in general lol
     
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    When she cant walk normal the next day. :mamoru:
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: everything the SO and I aren't into
     
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    o_O What are you into?
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I find it pretty scary that our sex life gets called "vanilla" because I don't like being choked our throat fucked :sad2:

    We just love sex everywhere, any time, at a hard pace with a little bit of dirty talk :hs: Oh, and spanking is really hot.
     
  12. Toxica

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    What my SO and I did last night. :mamoru:

    Slapping (face, boobs, ass), fucking really hard, pulling hair, choking, ect.
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    That is not a plus or minus for me.

    I have spoken to many guys who are quite bemused by the
    prevalence of female rape fantasies. They do it for the girl :rofl:

    I like both. It depends on the guy.
     
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    What were the differences in opinion between you and the SO jojo?
     
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    yeah, but I hear "into rough sex" as liking both rough and less rough and more or less sounds like "you can do whatever you want", where as not liking rough sex is "only into not rough, rough option off the table, you have to be a bit careful"
     
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    Different strokes for different folks. Nothing wrong with 'vanilla'. It's the most popular flavor for a reason, right?
     
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    Whatever works :bigthumb:
     
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    i consider rough sex one where pain is actually a goal separate from pleasure.
    i'm not really into that.

    throat fucking, spanking, light choking are fun though. not a huge fan of the hair pull but whatever floats your boat.
     
  19. Holliday

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    I feel like I'm the only guy in the world not turned on by rough sex :wtc:
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

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    SO is the same way. We have talked about things we would try or like to try and literally everything mentioned in this thread turns him off :dunno:
     
  21. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    My ex wasn't too much into it either, I mean he liked hard fucking, but other stuff he didn't really care much, I had to literally ask him to do those to me every time:rofl:
     
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    Our rough is not rough my most's standards. Spanking, clawing, hair pulling is about it outside of a good 'ol hard fucking.


    JoJo, since you asked.....what do you consider rough?
     
  23. antihero

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    :x: The belt thing from last time she answered this question is still waaaay up on my to do list.

    and feel free to be detailed. :naughty:
     
  24. Thelonius

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    all the obvious stuff like smacking, choking, jackhammer thrusting..and for me it means control too. say my gf is on her knees in front of me, i'll pull my cock out of her mouth and grab her hair so she can't move. she'll literally be begging me to put it back in and straining against my grip. it's pretty fucking hot.
     
  25. Holliday

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    :eek3:
    fuck that's hot
     

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