Whats wrong with my dick?

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  1. S0da P0pinski

    S0da P0pinski OT Supporter

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    So I was at this girls house last night whom I met a while ago on the internet. So im sitting on her couch getting a blowjob and within a minute I start to cum. It was really embarrassing. So we took a lil break and within 20min we tried it again (thinking I would last longer) and the same thing happened.

    The girl is very good at giving a blowjob but I dont think its because of her skills. For some reason I cum really fast weather its from getting head or having sex.

    I believe the cause of this is because I jerk off too much :squint: but im going to try to stop doing that. I am circumsized but I dont think that has anything to do with it.

    Is there any suggestions on how I can last longer, I heard something about kegel exersizes but I need to do some research.

    any other suggestions..this is really embarrasing :eek4:
     
  2. S0da P0pinski

    S0da P0pinski OT Supporter

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    I forgot to add that I was a little buzzed during this ordeal I was drinking vodka & OJ
     
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    My friend says it's because you were in the mood, you got so into it that you just came. He also says that the drinks should have slowed you down (IE whisky dick)
     
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    I know that liquor is supposed to slow down the process but that didnt stop me from ejaculating too fast, & I dont think I was too much in the mood it has happened many times in the past.
     
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    i dont understand how cut guys have this problem. i lost so much sensitivity when i got cut
     
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    i considered getting cut when i was like 13 because i thought my penis was ugly. then i realized that i didn't care what it looked like; i just cared what it felt like when i had sex.

    as for the OP, i'd say to try to extend your masterbation sessions and get used to waiting a long time before you cum. you should have a goal to jack off for 20 minutes before getting off. if you have to take short breaks here and there to calm yourself down thats ok. eventually you'll train yourself to last longer. sometimes it might also work to imagine what she's feeling instead of what you're feeling. this will get your mind off of some of the pleasure that you're experiencing by concentrating on what must be going through her head.
     
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    thanks alot Ruski

    i take it your russian..if so from where?
     
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    This is an exersize for WOMEN
     
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    rofl... :ugh2: I can see you've done your research since you say its women only exercise ./sarcasm off.


    Do kegels FOR MEN dude, it'll help. Masturbating alot actually decreases sensitivity unless you whack and cum in like 10 mins or less.
     
  11. MikeTheVike1

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    I jack off a lot and have the opposite problem...I last TOO long. Using a condom is a nightmare
     
  12. HuskiRuski

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    same here. i can go an hour to an hour and a half without cumming with a condom. without a condom, i'll usually go about 30 minutes.
     
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    yeah, masturbating definitely makes you last longer, sometimes too long.
     
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    http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html
     
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    Think of something else ro watch TV when you think you're close to the point of no return.
     
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    Drink More And Keep Going For It Til You Physically Cant Anymore
     
  18. Yail Bloor

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    kegel exercises will help

    if you masturbate frequently and cum quickly, you are training yourself to cum quickly
     
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    Yeah, practice masturbating and NOT having an orgasm. When you feel one coming on, stop for a bit, then start again. If you're getting a blow job, pull her off and kiss her neck or something, distract her, then let her start again.

    You can also stop from coming by pressing your finger firmly at the base of your scrotum. You'll feel a tube in there and you can block the flow. Wait a minute and you're good to go again. Multiple male orgasms anyone? :naughty:
     
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    why?

    I thought the point was to enjoy it???


    Yeah it'll make you last longer...but do you really want to be thinking about DiMaggio, Phil Mickelson or Tony Stewart while you're with your girl? I never understood this :dunno:


    just work on everything else that was stated. And if you still come too quickly....then PRACTICE :) sure it may take a few sessions...but after doing it enough you'll be able to last longer. And isn't getting more head a lot more fun than thinking about big, hairy, sweaty sports stars????
     
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    i have the opposite problem i cant seem to get off when im witha girl but yea gettin off by myself i can lol any suggestions?
     
  22. B4 I FU R U 18

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    :werd: jacking off too much will lead to the exact opposite
     

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