SRS What's wrong with me?

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  1. Drowned

    Drowned NameThatPornstar.com

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    Lately I've been getting in a bad mood for even the smallest things. I don't want to hear anything about anybody... I don't care about anything but my stuff... I just want to be alone in my own world for a few days but I know that's impossible since my girl is constantly calling me every damn hour, or people are calling the house or friends come over to interrupt when I'm doing stuff that interests me instead of hearing stupid stuff that happened to them... I was not like this a few months ago...

    I think my girl is the source of all my mood changes because she is drowning me with so much attention... she is completely in love with me and I can't stand her constant calling and attention although I've told her I don't like it... :sad2: I loved the way she was at the start of our relationship (1 year ago) where she had a high self-esteem and would have stuff to do instead of call me all day long asking me when I'm coming over to see her... she needs to find a hobby... I hate her family too... hehe... everybody is annoying... :mamoru: I like talking to my parents and brother though... that's normal I guess... hmmm, I think writing this opened up my mind... this girl is making my life a living hell, she is too controlling, wants too much attention, gives me too much attention too and has nothing better to do than study and call me all day long... I need to end this... fast...
     
  2. Darrin

    Darrin Eat. Sleep. Arrest People.

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    Is there anywhere you can get away from it all? Maybe go running in the park for an hour alone, or simply just let her know you need some alone time every day, turn ure phone on silent and hide it so u cant look at it/check for missed calls.
     
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    Exercise would be a good idea. How are your sleeping habits? I am most irritable and pissy when I am really behind on sleep. You need to tell your girl how you feel, but don't be a dick about it. Expalin to her that you care about her, but her constant calls to you is bothering you. I have the same problem sometimes and I usually go and play my guitar for a while or listen to music (headphones work good) and relax. Try to be as calm as possible and reflect on anything and everything, or just think of nothing. That seems to do the trick for me!
     
  4. Darketernal

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    Look this is what being in love is all about ,time will erode this she will still give you attention but not that much , you'll just have to cope for it for a while, and then things will start to settle down. Give it some time, it will become most likely less.
     
  5. Layne Staley

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    I just got out a 7 year relationship similar to this. I stayed in for WAY too long, but it was because she acted like she loved me so much, and i felt guilty because i didn't feel the same way. I thought something was just wrong with me and I would eventually snap out of it or something.

    Now i'm away from her, but its almost like over all those years I actually DID convince myself that there is something wrong with me, or something "broken" inside of me. OR.....maybe there is and I'm just in denial about it, who knows.
     
  6. toeshoes

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    unplug your phone
     
  7. Drowned

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    That's exactly what's going on with me :noes: But I'm thinking I'm not going to find a faithful loving girl again :hs: and I think that's what stopping me... I'm scared of all the selfish non-loving sluts out there...
     
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    Those 'selfish, non-loving sluts out there' are pretty damn good for stress relief. Why are you looking for a mate now? You sound fairly young. Go out, fuck those 'non-loving sluts' until you're both blue in the face. (or red, whatever side you rep :coolugh: ) But just don't forget to wrap it up. They don't love you, but they'll love your paycheck when you get 'em knocked up!

    Play it cool, meng.
     

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