Whats wrong? NOTHING GOD DAMNIT!!!

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  1. tunafizzle

    tunafizzle New Member

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    Me and my SO have been together 14 months and she loves me and I love her and for the most part we don't have many problems. But we keep running into the same problem, here's an example:

    Her - "Hey, how was your day"
    Me - "Same old shit, you?"
    "yadda yadda yadda" general chatting for a while, then as soon as i'm silent for a couple minutes, the unavoidable question comes up
    Her - "What's wrong?"
    Me - "Nothing, why?"
    Her - "Cmon what's the matter?"
    Me - "Really theres nothing bothering me"
    Her - "What is it?"
    Me - "Seriously, everything is good"
    Her - "I can hear it in your voice, don't lie to me"
    Me - "I'm being honest, theres no problem"


    Then things will escalate and she'll tell me how I'm not sharing my problems with her and she thinks I don't trust her to open myself up to her, which I could understand if there was a problem I wasn't sharing..... But the thing is, there is really nothing wrong 90+ percent of the time. I have no idea what to do because if I tell her nothing is wrong she thinks I'm lying and that I'm distancing myself.

    OT, please, some advice here...
     
  2. Fire Sauce

    Fire Sauce New Member

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    She's a crazy bitch.

    [​IMG] from the relationship now, quit wasting your time with psychos.
     
  3. tunafizzle

    tunafizzle New Member

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    I know you'd assume she crazy just from telling that one part, but I don't have any other problems with her we get along great. Its just this one isolated thing she does, i'm not bailing out of a relationship over it.
     
  4. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    lol no shit. it just sounds kind of funny to me. if i were you i would tease her about it. after a certain point what else can you do. there's nothing bothering you, then there's nothing bothering you ... :rofl:
     
  5. Manhole

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    I've been having the same issue lately, and it's confusing. It's allmost like my g/f wants something to be wrong. Just over the phone tho...
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    It's hard to feel as close over the phone as you can in person. Your partner is guessing that there's more you would be talking about if you could see her in person, so whether she's right or wrong, she's trying to pull it out of you.
     
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    next time it happens; tell her "you keep doing this same shit to me over and over...thats the problem" *then you take it from thereon about how she repeatedly does this to you*
     
  8. antihero

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    start making up stories that go from almost believable to completely fucking ridiculous.

    im driving today and this asshole in a camaro cuts me off, so i honk at him... fucker gets out of the car and punches me in the side of the head..... see how long you can keep her going... :bigthumb:
     
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    ^ :lol: thats a good one
     
  10. Hunt

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    I think I might try this one time :cool:
     
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    tunafizzle New Member

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    I do that to people alot, just make up some crazy story for the hell of it... but I never thought of doing it in this situation, I'll be sure to do it nextime.
     
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    make something up that doesnt involve her or effect her....headache, backache, whatever..then say he asking u 10 million times is making ur headache worse
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    in my experience, men suck plenty at saying what they mean. sometimes it's because they are trying to be macho, sometimes it's because they've been raised by morons, but they can't express their thoughts
     
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    Sounds like you two talk to often. Maybe talk to her less so you each have a chance to get some different daily experiences to discuess on the phone?
     
  15. <Mark>

    <Mark> A flute without holes, is not a flute. A donut wit

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    My gf asks me that now and then but its easier to tell when I fucked up. I just go by her body language. Too easy.
     

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