Falling for someone completly and becoming emotional attached. You both like each other a lot and want to date, but it never happens because of some situation. nothing physical happens. Maybe some friendly hugging, cuddling, and such but no sex. And then losing that person due to uncontrollable circumstances. or Settling for someone. Youre not emotionally attached at first but then he/she grows on you, but youre still missing an ex the whole time. You have sex but kiiind of wish it was with someone else. And then you break up. What would hurt you more?