First of all, I don't even know why I'm writing this thread. It could either be that I want people to tell me I'm write, I want people to sympathize with me, I want to be right, or maybe I just want to type out the situation in order to better understand and analyze it. Ok, so it's a group project that I had to work on as part of my software engineering program. The project consisted of developing a task manager. We were developing this thing in a group of 6. We started out with a group of 5 but we were forced to have another guy on our team. So, our team consisted of me, the emotionally fucked up guy with the long hair who's almost emo yet has the best GPA in the program and people think I'm an arrogant jerk. Then I was with my friend, or maybe I should say ex-friend, let's call him Jeff. He's an Asian dude who sucks up to everyone a bit too much. Then there was this girl, let's call her Dorothy. She's some Asian girl that draws vampire pictures all the time in class and that seems totally fucked up and doesn't talk to anyone. My friend Jeff, for some reason, sucked up to her so much and sexually harassed her so much that he managed to turn her into a bitch. He then learned that she was a lesbian and then proceeded to continue harassing her nevertheless. Then there's this other girl on our team. Let's call her Hilary. I've had a bit of a conflict with this Hilary before this semester started. I'll explain shortly. SHe is however a very horrible bitch. Then there was this Sri Lanka dude, let's call his Samir cause he reminds me so much of the office space character. He's a very cool dude, but he's always working. Then there was the dude that was thrust onto us since no one else wanted him and the dumbass tutor decided that we should have to endure him. Ok, so now, this girl Hilary, who's a total bitch. This is what happened before the semester. She wanted to create some student society. So, being a total idiot, I joined the society. however, she turned out into a total bitch and claimed taht being the president and us only being the vice-president she basically had the right to tell us what to do and we had absolutely no say. We'd have a democratic vote and then she'd just veto whatever we said because she was the president. She also had and still has the most arrogant and self-sufficient air that I've ever seen in a person. So I quit the society after a few days and she stayed mad at me forever because of that. So basically, everything started out not bad in the project. The project was separated into two iterations. I wanted to have everyone in the group do everything but the others wanted to separate the group into two separate groups for development and documentation. I reluctantly agreed adn thus it began. I paired up with my friend Jeff and we started coding the thing. So we coded our asses off for 1 month straight and ended up with some product by the skin of our teeth. I worked 150 hours on this iteration and my friend Jeff worked about as much though he caught a flu halfway through and missed a few days. We'd basically start early in the morning coding and wouldn't leave school until 11pm every day working on this stuff. The girls, meanwhile, were doing documentation. Easy stuff I might add. Nothing complicated. They basically refused to help us with the coding on the pretext that they had to do documents and even when they were finished wouldn't even help us out. Samir, meanwhile, was supposed to work on testing but he was working like 40 hours a week as well as taking a full course load so that didn't end up very well. The other guy, we saw him briefly at a meeting. So yeah, we ended up the first iteration with a crappy user interface for our program and something not quite working quite well. Dorothy got mad at us because we only got an A for that iteration because of the coding. So yeah, second iteration, they were supposed to do the coding and we were supposed to lay back and do teh documentation. SO what happened was taht Dorothy decided taht she had a huge project that was more important than that and the bitchiest girl, Hilary, also had a project to do so she didn't do anything on the project. (Turns out, Hilary's partner for the other project also claimed that she couldn't do anything for his project because of our own project, this sounds like a case of a kid telling two parents that he'll be at the other parent's place). So yeah, me and Jeff got stuck coding everything until the end of the project. The Hilary girl ended up only messing our project by adding weird colours to it all the time or breaking our functionality. The other girl Dorothy decided at one point that she was mad at me. Not that she'd tell me, she just did the girl thing of being mad (god I hate working with girls). So me and Jeff coded the whole thing (I spent over 300 hours on the project in all, he must have spent at last 250) and then I had to also finish up the documentation on the last day and fix all bugs that those girls had introduced while Jeff was trying to make up as many test cases as possible in one day. Meanwhile, Dorothy was pretending to work or was just chatting with friends and when I'd tell her to do something she'd say that she has documents to review. The other girl meanwhile, was bitching at me for having ruined the formatting that she had applied to something. I basically put my headphones on and waited for her to go away. Through some heroic effort, me and jeff managed to get the whole thing working. We then did our demo, the professor complemented our UI (which I had done almost entirely yet Dorothy managed to take credit for doing). Then next day, I learn that Dorothy was mad at me because I had snapped a few times under the stress and pressure of the project and that she would join another team for next year. Not that I cared taht much but that pretty much means taht I'll be losing my friend Jeff. He told me that he'd be with me if I could build some good team for next year but I could see taht he only wants to be again with this bitch's team next year. So, the overall picture is that I did most of the work because everyone else was so lazy, I managed to get them all an A+ yet they all abandon me because I snapped at times when I was extremely tired, had the flu and was burnt out yet continued working. I managed to get into another group for next year. They'll probably be a much better group than I had this year and most importantly there are no girls on this team. So, what I learned in that project is that people don't want you to work hard in groups, they want you smile at them and tell them how good they are and wipe their asses while at the same time also do all the work. Well, not really everyone, it's just girls that are like that. Since there are so few of them in the software engineering program and tehy have so many guys eager to please them anyway they want, they just become bitches and my best friend is the guy that sucks up most to those bitches while I treat them exactly like I treat other guys. BTW, this is not the only time that I've had some girls bitching at me. At my last workplace where I was working as an intern, everyone loved me except this woman who probably had something stuck up her ass or something. Because I had long hair and I have a pretty laid back attitude, she kept harassing me, asking me constantly if I didn't like the job, and then she'd give me motives saying that I thought I was too good for this job etc and that I didn't apply myself. All this despite the fact that my real boss was impressed with my work and that I even got a letter from a boss 3 levels up complimenting my work. Also, all my other coworkers seemed to appreciate me and I got a lot of positive reviews from them. Bah, I don't know if any of this is a question of a comment or whatever, but please respond and give me some feedback. Is there somethign wrong with me, am I doing something wrong?