So ive been with my gf for going on a year and a half now and for the most part things are awesome. Anyways in the last year and a half I can count our fights on one hand. The fights arent a real problem for me, and I think thats part of a real problem I have. I grew up in a very fucked up enviroment and I am very confrontational person. So, anyways we go like two or 3 months without any issues then we have an argument, it's small and insignificant no reason what so ever that it should be more than, well I disagree with that and move on. For some fucked up reason i push this shit and I don't know why. Ill argue and argue and push until we have a full blown fight going on. Shes always saying not to worry about the fights, I put up with her shit she can put up with mine. However, I really dont see her continuing to stay with me if I don't change this trait of mine. I love her to death and im terrified that sooner rather than later shes going to say fuck this shit and drop me like a bad habit. Any ideas? I probably need a shrink but I can't afford that and even if I could if I went to one my career would be completly fucked. Probably not going to get alot of help here because I probably do have a mental problem but, I suppose it never hurts to ask.