What's the trick with dealing hard to play women?

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    I have no trouble making my first impression but sometimes or most of the time women want more of you (they play hard to get). So what is the trick on this?
     
  2. nerd9

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    dont respond and just let her come to you, and dont pursue her even if she stops responding...pretty obvious.
     
  3. JordanClarkson

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    Theyŕe playing hard to get because they want you and they can't handle that. It makes them feel like a slut and they try to fight it. They'll try to fix their top so that nothing shows or they'll pull their skirt down to cover up. Just sit next to her and put your hand on her leg for an uncomfortable amount of time. Keep trying to be physical. Remember that all red lights will eventually turn green
     
  4. Falconer

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    I generally try to avoid women who play games, and that includes hard to get games.

    Drama.
     
  5. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    roofie-colada?
     
  6. ChaCha

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    i dunno if she would be good dating material as some has suggested but...

    just play her game and try to turn get the ball in your court so to speak
     
  7. BlackIce72

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    my forte

    you rip shit on them and walk away -- I don't LIKE these women, but I have my best results with them

    Soften them up by active disinterest, then you can be normal

    they might be too cool for school, but I'm the superintendent, son
     
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    Knock them down a peg and they'll be putty in your hands.
     
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    Simple answer for me is: dont

    For every girl that thinks she is too hot to be down to earth there are at least two more that dont think that way.
     
  10. knucks

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    just ignore the hell out of them. they'll come.

    if not, you never wasted your time so it's win-win for you
     
  11. 04JETTA

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    it just really depends on the girl for me if im SUPER interested I play along if not other fish in the sea
     
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    I agree with the consensus in this thread.... the trick is: you don't deal with them
     
  13. Falconer

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    Girls are disqualifying themselves from high quality, intelligent men by introducing drama.

    Cliffs: attention girls: the reason you "can't find a good man" is because you're psycho and we're off dating high quality women instead of you.
     
  14. NCS

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    i used to have great results with the girls that were excellent at playing games because i'd just completely ignore them and eventually they'd come to me. but i was truly ignoring them, i had no interest. then they'd show me a cool side of their personality, we'd date, but still too much drama, and it wouldnt work. this was in school/club/whatever environments where there's a lot of time involved.

    the quick way has been stated though - knock them down a peg without being insulting.
     
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    I sorta thought playing hard to get = low interest :dunno:
     
  17. JordanClarkson

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    I had the problem where after I ignored a girl and she showed interest, once I gave her attention again she shuts down and ignores me. :confused:
     
  18. KindlyCuddly

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    sometimes it seems like people are playing hard to get when, in reality, they're just trying to get away. remember that.
     
  19. chica&buddies

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    yup.... avoid it all.
     
  20. AndrewLD

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    i was talking with a girl this summer. she fucking played games right away :ugh:

    just dont be AFC and chase her... that's what she wants.
     
  21. Original

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    lots of girls do this, bitches ride your cock then fall off the earth when you start showing them you're interested. it's all a tease
     
  22. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Back handed compliments, then move to ignore.
     
  23. NCS

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    just taking a guess here:
    there's a difference between giving attention and seeking approval.
     
  24. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    I have problems approaching them and keeping a conversation going... not sure why, they seem uninterested/have their guard up?

    This is at college bars btw. Maybe I should wait until frosh week dies out
     
  25. JordanClarkson

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    By giving back attention I mean acting normal and simply communicating, not being needy or flirtatious. My gf and I were trying to be friendly but she just kept acting stuck up. Maybe she got bored. :dunno:
     
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