whats the first thing a girl notices about a guy...

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  1. illdisposed

    illdisposed New Member

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    saaaaaaaay at a bar or somthing, what would make u wanna go up to him and start humping his leg??
     
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    Your look. The way you stand, the way you sit, the way you move. <- body language. The way you dress. I'm not a woman, but that's what women notice.
     
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    if your tallywacker is hanging out the bottom of your pant leg and you keep tripping on it.
     
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    Whether or not the guy is fat. Then the posture, then the teeth and hair
     
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    first thing i really noticed about my bf was his stride/walk/posture.
     
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    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    Even when not at a bar this is important.
     
  8. illdisposed

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    ok fair enough, i got a few responses....


    NOW.... what am i doing wrong to get all the non attractive <fat chick> girls to swarm to me in herds... im a better then average looking guy, what signal am i sending out for this to happen....if its a hot girl and her <puke> overweight non attractive friend, the friend will latch on to me with her death grip for the night and not go away.... wtf causes this
     
  9. cdemdec26

    cdemdec26 Destroy Erase Improve

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    They will notice your posture, then they will look at how your acting and who you're with. Make it obvious that you're social and you can have a good time. Then you might get a few looks. A guy in a t-shirt and sneakers in the middle of the crowd having a good time will get more tail then some guy dressed up in the corner holding up the wall.

    But if you are looking to stand in a bar and have the girls hit on you, stay home with a 12 pack and a tub of Vaseline. It's the other way around, you have to be the aggresor especially at bars and such.
     
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    Absolutely. Its something you should always be aware of.


    This happens to me all the time. What I usually do is talk for a minute, then tell her I have to get back to my friends or something. But I do have a way of hinting that I'm not really interested in talking. Be nice, because a good-looking woman may be watching the interraction. Although I did have a girl Friday night that would NOT leave me alone, so I had no choice but to blow her off every time she started talking to me after a while. Sometimes enough is enough.

    One thing I like to do when I go out is to have a good looking woman or women with you. There are a few benefits to this.

    1. Naturally, women will be curious. I get approached the most when I'm already with good looking girls.

    2. The girls I'm with know how I am(flirt a lot- I tease, I smile) when I'm talking to a girl I'm interested in. A few weeks ago I was out with a group of friends, but I walked off to take a phone call. A girl who I had absolutely no interest in approached me when I closed my cell phone, and within 30 seconds of talking to her, one of my female friends came over and bailed me out.
     
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    Not always true. Ever notice that you meet women when you're not TRYING to meet women?
     
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    cdemdec26 Destroy Erase Improve

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    yes, I have. but most of the time they expect you to go and talk to them.
     
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    Yeah, the better looking ones will usually keep eye contact and smile, suggesting that you come talk. A few weeks ago I did come across a VERY sexy girl who was so confident that she wouldn't even really smile- just really strong eye contact. She was 100% sure she was the sexiest girl in the place and communicated that through her eyes. It was quite fascinating.
     
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    personally I look at shoes first. Then eyes, then what they are drinking.
     
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    They look at how much money is in ur wallet.
     
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    Eye contact is key. It is always what caught my attention first, that and body language.
     
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    I would say its the Face.
     
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    token "his wallet" response.



    hey, someone had to :)
     
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    muscles.
     
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    Its amazing what kind of feelings you can give someone just by the way you look at them. Most people don't realize just how important eye contact and body language is.
     
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    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    I want a man when he walks into a room to have a commanding presence. Not in the obnoxious asshole sort of way either. Actions speak way louder than words.
     

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