background info can be skipped, but i like to be thorough anyways we spent several months texting each other before we actually met and eventually started dating. she lived about 1.5 hours away by highspeed train so we only saw each other when she wasnt working as she has childhood friends from russia that live in my area things are great when we are with each other, but when she had to go back to her city, she would become borderline psycho. 1. she will constantly question whether or not i like her. 2. if we are texting each other and i take too long to respond she will get upset and accuse me of having another girl and i am playing with her emotions 3. if i mention another female, even if its a clerk at a store she will get jealous and ask if they hit on me, did i flirt with them. 4. she will constantly wonder why i like her despite all of her "problems". she always feels that she doesnt measure up to me and i deserve better. 5. when she gets drunk she will pull all of this stuff when we are out with our friends. the ones that have known her for the past 10-15 years always pull me aside and let tell me that my g/f really likes me and never stops talking about me, and only acts that way because she feels i can do better. i am a calm, easygoing guy and i usually rectify the situation by explaining to her that i only want to be with her etc etc. ever since i called her out on this erratic behaviour she has significantly cut back on it. she also calls the very next day and apologizes for like 20 min about her behaviour her now exhusband received orders last month to return to the states and she had to go as well because she was living on a spouse Visa. we decided to stay together and try the long distance thing because i return to the states in february next year we talk on the phone twice a day for about an hour each time and i am going to visit the states in november so we will see each other for about 10 days. i know she will take a step back in time when i have to return to korea and she will become erratic again for a few weeks is this one of those things that will gradually fade away or does she have to forgive her father completely before she can fully trust someone with her heart and actually love them (she told me she never loved her husband and he never loved her ) what can i do to help her with these insecurities? im not in the business of abandoning people or giving up on them because they have issues in their life. help?