Sex and its being special and not just a recreational activity? What happened to respect for one another? What happened to privacy? I was a party girl in my time, had my share of boyfriends, but I always thought sex was something a bit special and not to be done with every tom, dick and harry, sally, sue and jane that came along. Why is it just something to do now? why has things changed so much? Do any of you still think it is something special between two people? curious once again.