What would you guys do? v.chick ditched me for her ex

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  1. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    So Saturday night we had a Halloween party at my house. I met a girl from MSU through a friend's friend. We chatted throughout the night, danced, made out on numerous occasions. Before we did that, tho, I got her number as I will be at MSU later this week for Halloween. Told her I'd call her when I'm there.

    Anyways, later in the night her ex-bf showed up. She just left me for him, I'm pretty sure I saw them make out and then who knows what later.

    She was drunk, if that makes any difference in the situation.

    I got upset, but then again, I had my fun, she was some random girl to me, I was some random guy to her (but I guess not random enough to get her number...).

    So now, should I call her up? I'm not looking for anything serious at all. Just want some fun.

    On one hand, I feel like she is not worth my time because of what she did, on the other, if I do call her and she's down to hit up a party together or something of the sort, no skin off my back.

    Thoughts? Anyone ever run into this kind of situation?
     
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    I'd avoid it. It's not worth the fun. There's baggage. Fun often leads to desires for more...let it be.
     
  3. knucks

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    Well like I said, my first thought was "Well, fuck her, she's obviously not good enough for me if she did that."

    But then again, if I call her, and something happens that night, cool. If I call, and she says no, whatever, I got other things to do that night anyways.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If you really truly just want no strings attached dating then why not call her? However, from everything I've learned about you you seem to be incapable of emotionless relationships with women...so you might want to think about if you even want to bother calling.

    Then again, why build it up when she might not even answer or call you back ever again? What do you really have to lose? Who gives a shit if she made out with her ex bf after you, she was loose enough to make out with you after knowing you minutes :dunno: Don't be a hypocrite.
     
  5. Falconer

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    There is nothing about this girl that could possibly outweigh what she just did.

    Ditching in general is an incredibly huge red flag. Ditching for an ex is like red flag * infinity. It's like getting kicked in the balls and then when you're on the ground unable to move, getting your face pissed on. Allow me to explain:

    girls that still talk to their exes = red flag and 100% guarantee of drama

    girls that ditch you = red flag

    But you're combining those into one. That's such a fucking massive red flag I can't even begin to describe it.

    Honestly dude I wouldn't even talk to this girl anymore. If she calls, ignore it. If she doesn't call, she's doing you a favor. Definitely don't call her.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If he just wants sex who cares how much baggage she has?
     
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    Well that's exactly it, I have nothing to lose :dunno:

    I'll be at MSU to hang out/party with my buddies, I know she lives real close. If she answers, cool, if not, cool. :dunno:

    I guess I'm just trying to see others' view on this.
     
  8. Falconer

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    Not really. She's already given you concrete proof that she's low quality and not very interested in you. The only thing that would come out of "something cool happening" would be you getting more interested in her and then being inevitably let down in the future.
     
  9. Falconer

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    It's best to keep FWBs as drama free as possible.
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    She would be a one night stand, there's a huge difference.
     
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    I don't want a relationship with her. It'd be a red flag if I were to pursue her further, but really, there is no point.

    For instance, if she went to my school, that would be more involved since I would possibly think there is chance for more.

    The fact that she goes to a different school, which I rarely visit, makes me realize that besides a hook-up, she is worthless.
     
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    Did you even read the first post?
     
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    Yeah.

    1. You got upset. You're already emotionally vested in the outcome of this.

    2. She's not over her ex. That has failure written all over it.
     
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    :rofl:

    You're clueless.
     
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    Yeah I must be. Getting upset is definitely not the result of emotional dependence on an outcome. Hold on while I rewrite psychology textbooks.
     
  16. jimmyjoe

    jimmyjoe Across 110th Street, You can find it all in the st

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    She sounds like to much trouble, stay away.

    plus her bF could be trouble, you had your window of opportunity with her, had some fun... find a new girl, plenty of girls out there.
     
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    hell no. any woman that picks another man over me is completely done.

    There are plenty of other girls out there man
     
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    knucks it sounds like you are emotinally invested.. you got mad when she ditched you for ex.. anger = emotion.
     
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    :rofl: .
     
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    if it were ONLY about the sex, wouldn't you have just shrugged and gone after another girl?

    Hell, even if it is for just the sex and you try to hit her up again for some pussy, what's to say she wouldn't ditch you again if she got a better offer?
     
  21. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    :rofl: Why would you care if some chick you just met and made out with ran off with her ex?

    Who gives a fuck.
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd:

    Wahhhhh, my ego, wahhhh
     
  23. knucks

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    I actually did find a different girl that same night...

    Of course, she can ditch me again. That's not what I'm wondering about tho...
     
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    Cuz I want to plow her :dunno:
    :rofl:
     
  25. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Well if she wanted you to slam her pussy she wouldn't have left with her ex.

    Find some new pussy without the baggage.
     

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