SRS What would you do?

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  1. Schecter1277

    Schecter1277 hi

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    I have just hooked up with this cute girl I met in college, and she really likes me and I really like her, everything is great.

    Problem: her ex boyfriend who she hates still likes her and is jealous of me.

    I am 5'10 135lbs, I would never win a fight against many people, and he is threatening to jump me, with all his friends.

    What should I do?
     
  2. EliteBC

    EliteBC New Member

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    Get a gun. Head shot.
     
  3. Schecter1277

    Schecter1277 hi

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    Seriously...
     
  4. EliteBC

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    Seriously, don't even listen to it. 99% of the time it's just some asshole talking shit, and really isn't going to act on it. He's trying to scare you away from her. That's it. Stay with her, be happy with her, and if he ever really does jump you (which I'm positive he won't) press charges on the asshole.
     
  5. Rich

    Rich New Member

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    You're in college and fear getting jumped? Shit. How old are you? If you're 21 I would seriously consider getting a fire arm and a permit and just use it to strike fear into him and his friends.
     
  6. Schecter1277

    Schecter1277 hi

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    Like I said, I'm 5'10(or 11ish) and 135lbs, I am not one who is big enough to do more than defend himself. Holding off 3-4 guys won't end well.
     
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    It's not going to happen anyways. Stop worrying about it. :bigthumb:
     
  8. Schecter1277

    Schecter1277 hi

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    Probably right... Thanks for the reassurance. :bigthumb:
     
  9. EliteBC

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    No problem. Like I said, he's just trying to scare you into staying away from her. It's all good.
     
  10. METALLlC BLUE

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    Report it to the school or local police if it escalates to a point where you actually fear it may happen. The change of it happening is tiny.
     
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    yeah i agree it probably wont happen hes just venting his frustration at you tryin to scare you off
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Stay away from him? If he comes to you (i.e. at school or at your home) call the police. Situation over.
     
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  13. Schecter1277

    Schecter1277 hi

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    I live in florida. If he were to threaten me with 3-4 of his buddies and to defend myself I pulled out my trusty pocket knife, would I be at fault, or is it self defence?
     
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    It shouldn't come to that. If you're ever concerned then file a report.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Do not pull a weapon. Jesus. Do you really think this guy and his friends are going to hunt you down on campus or something and fight you? If so, run the fuck away, find a cop. Anything. Don't put yourself in a tricky situation over a loser ex boyfriend.
     
  16. Schecter1277

    Schecter1277 hi

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    I'm not a big guy, so I normally avoid fights. (yet somehow have had my nose broken twice)

    And I don't know what people will do, so I have to cover all my bases should it happen. He's really fucked in the head, and she says he owns a gun...
     
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    This is the last time I'm saying this. File a report and talk to the school security office. Start a papertrail, regardless. At least if nothing happens to you, other people are protected if his name is filed.
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd:
     
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    I agree with the other posters. You need to start a paper trail and let people know that you has been threatened so if it happends you are better covered legally.

    However, the police will not protect you. They won't be your body guard and can only really charge him with anything once he actually commits the crime. If you try to call the cops right when they start attacking you they are gonna find you beaten to a pulp. Don't take this kind of a threat lightly. You don't have to be paranoid, but be smart and watch your back for a while. If he does show up at your house or at places you frequent you might be able to take more legal action.

    Check your state laws on self defense. More than likely in a 2v1 or greater, your state gives you a right to use of deadly force because it can be reasonably assumed your life is in danger. Your best bet though is to run away towards a crowded place. Pulling a weapon on them if you have no idea how to use it is a bad move, because if you lose your weapon, they are gonna hurt you a lot more. A knife is not a good idea. If you can get a concealed weapon permit you'd be much better off. Odds are good that they will not do anything, but its stupid to simply go about assuming they won't.

    You don't have to be paranoid about it but be well prepared in case it does happen.
     
  20. METALLlC BLUE

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    Very smart post.
     
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    :werd: nothing wrong with some insurance
     
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    How's this workin' out for you these days? :hsugh:
     
  23. Anudist

    Anudist Turnin' Jesus on, one lightswitch at a time.

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    Yeah, seems like this girl was a problem from the get go here....
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm exactly your size (give or take three pounds) and that doesn't mean that you (or I) can't defend yourself; you just need to know how, if it comes down to it. I'm not really in support of the whole "get a gun" thing, though. It's not that I'm anti-gun by any means, but if you're already anxious, a new fire-arm (especially without the proper training) could just make the situation worse.
    But as another poster mentioned, I wouldn't even worry about it happening at all; it sounds like this guy is just talking big in an attempt to scare you away from "his" girl.
     

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