LGBT What would you do?

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  1. skreid

    skreid New Member

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    Ok, so I recently discovered my (completely out) SO told my sister about me (out to two people, including him). When we first met we discussed it and he told me my being in wouldn't affect us in any way... and he promised to never tell anyone until I was ready. I've also found (through less than honorable means) that he has been messaging my sister/a couple friends and has gone ahead and told them. My friends know him as one of my roommates and, on more than one occasion, asked me why my "insane roommate" wont stop calling them and texting them at 3 in the morning.

    What would you do? I've lost all trust I had with him and can't honestly see my self staying with someone like this.
     
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    OakleyTodd New Member

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    Sounds like you already have your answer.
     
  3. Josey

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    DAWT...
     
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    Agreed.
     
  5. Digital_

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    I concur.
     
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    what a crummy string of events. What you should do? dont request any more information from people online. Sit your SO down and have a conversation expressing how much faith and trust you have lost in him - tell him exactly what you said here... then see where things go.
     
  7. Josey

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    I have to say I disagree...I'd have to beat the shit out of him for going against something as sacred as the trust you put into someone when you come out to them and then have them do that kinda shit...ass stomping would occur
     
  8. skreid

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    I didn't request anything online actually... Like I said, I gathered my information through less than honorable means. aka I installed a program that monitors and sends everything he does to my email.
     
  9. Priest Tango

    Priest Tango Custom User Tits

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    theres always room for makeup sex in thios situation :o
     
  10. skreid

    skreid New Member

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    If we didn't work together and I wasn't his boss, that's most likely what would happen.

    Very true, very true. Can't see him making up for this though.
     
  11. Digital_

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    Might I also suggest ass to mouth, then change your phone number.
     
  12. ExDelayed

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    Done that. My ex was complaining that the computer would lock up randomly on him through the day. I installed a keylogger to see what he was doing so I could fix it. All I found was a lot of "Gay.com: Ooh, thats hot. You should come over." :squint:

    Called him at work, at midnight and the conversation was something like, "You should be damn glad your at work right now and I am getting ready for bed. If you were here right now, you would be finding a new place to live." "But honey, I knew that was there, I wanted to see how you would react so I would know if you loved me." That was coming from the person who couldnt find the porn folder, even though it was on the desktop and labeled Pr0n.

    :nono: Oops. Hopefully if you do break it off, it doesnt come back to bite you in the pocketbook.

    Its been awhile since that was done. :hs:
     
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    That's a significant violation of trust, especially from someone who you might assume understands that gravity of that kind of secret.
     
  14. skreid

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    Just a lil update... gave him another chance, but he did it again. Some of my friends were getting pretty angry. Then he started getting possessive of me (had to lie to go hang out with my best friend because he thought I was fucking with him). Long story short, he found out I was out with a friend one day and held me in my room with broken glass for two hours before police came and I jumped out a third story window to get away =\

    On my own, new job, doing much better :)
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    I would nip the problem in the bud and just come out already.

    what's holding you back?
     
  16. TheMustafa

    TheMustafa hook 'em

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    thats insane. what a nutjob.
     
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    Oh sorry thought I said it... most people know now:wiggle:
     
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    Wait what? He held you hostage and you had to jump out a third story window? And you're worried about trust issues?
     
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    Well, in my defense, he never showed any signs of being crazy before that day.
     
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    Well that's fair enough about after that I'd never look back
     
  21. Ivan

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    I hope he finds a cure for his brain.
     
  22. Josey

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    :bowdown::bowdown::rofl::rofl:

    But in all seriousness if he can't keep his mouth shut...get the fuck outta dodge
     
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    I like you.
     
  24. What would I do?

    Curb stomp.

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    I'm not (very) racist or a Nazi.
     
  25. ExDelayed

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    I wanted to fuck Edward Norton through that entire movie. Hes hot anyway and for him to not have his shirt on in parts made it better.

    The tattoos? They could wash off since it was Norton I wanted to fuck and not his character.
     

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