What would you do? This is bad!

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  1. Troy

    Troy New Member

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    Wife and I have been married for 13 years. She has a 21 year old daughter from a relationship she had way before we met, in fact had her when she was only 16. Said step daughter doesn't live with us, she has her own place.

    Her Job has had her in our direct area for the last week so she has stayed at our House during this time....Two nights ago the unthinkable almost happened. It was about midnight or so, I was getting my nightly Sportscenter fix when I must have drifted off to sleep, next thing I know I wake up to the stepdaughter getting ready to give me a BJ:noes::noes::eek3:. She pulled down my boxers and I woke up just before she started and I immediatelly stopped her. Now I have noticed she has given me the "eye" on several occasions, I'm 37 and not hard on the eyes but I mean come on! She is a very attractive young lady to say the least and I'd be a liar if I said I never noticed her in that way.

    Now I don't know what to do, I told her how wrong she was and that I very much loved her mother. Know I don't know if I shoud tell the wife, if I do it will surely cause her and her daughter to have severe issues, if I don't and she finds out later she will think I was trying to hide it????? Why me, I didn't ask for this shit, especially a few days before christmas.:ugh:
     
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    You need to tell your wife. If you want to save your relationship, you don't know what type of spin her daughter will put unto it. If your wife is important to you bite the bullet and let her know.
     
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    Paging Iwishyouwerebeer to lay down the ban hammer.
     
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  5. Troy

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    Somehow he was married for 8 years last year, and 13 years this year. Interesting.[/quote]

    yeah nine years now but dating/married 13....Why would i make this up..lol.



    Our marriage is great, we have no issues.
     
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    Yeah I think so, but man it will cause stress over the Holidays.
     
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    Ban this! Some of you people crack me up. What did I do to deserve a ban?
     
  8. Troy

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    LOL, my wife is very attractive and certainly not "worn out". And where did I say I don't get enough sex? Hell it's never enough but I don't recall ever complaining about it.
     
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    LMAO, I have been married for 9 and and married dating for 13....I can see your point but honestly the post is 100% true.

    I've already decided I'm telling her tonight but I'm going to make it sound like she was playing around, maybe i can just spin it a bit.
     
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    Osiris^ Creepy as fuck son OT Supporter

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    You should've pretended you were still asleep.... I know I would have.
     
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    If you are being serious with this thread, then just tell her what happened. YOU did nothing wrong. In fact, you did everything right. Now the last right thing you need to do is tell her the truth with no spins to it. If you add a spin, then you give the daughter a way to discredit what you say. If you lie even a little bit, you give her daughter a way to make it seem like you aren't really innocent.

    So give it to her straight, and let the chips fall where they may.
     
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    :bowrofl:

    Fucking :werd:
     
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    Kill zem. Kill zem all.
     
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    Come on guys no way I could have let that happen lol....Viper, I agree with you but if i take this approach maybe I could wait until after Christmas, this is going to be bad, I didn't want her to be upset/pissed for the Holidays. This is such BS, my stomach is in knots because I know the wife will flip.

    My wife knows I'd never cheat, I just feel so bad for her, wtf would her daughter do something like that, what a little slut!
     
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    Serve them cellular peptide cake.












    With mint frosting.
     
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    No contest here man, if you love your wife, tell her what happened, don't have sex with your step-daughter.

    If you don't love your wife, then fuck the daughter. Why not?
     
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    :hsugh:
     
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    if i was your wife and you waited to tell me something like this, i would be pissed at the situation and pissed that you waited

    you should have told her when it happened, not days later, or weeks later. you waiting makes things look suspicious
     
  19. Viper

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    How about you go first?
     
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    I mean, if you are judging him, then we gotta see who's judging him here.

    it's research IT'S RESEARCH!
     
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    Ditto.
     
  22. Troy

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    werd, Im game! let's see the requester first!:naughty:


    The wife would never be suspicious over that!
     
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    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude wat?

    This is pretty far-fetched sounding. :hsugh:
     
  24. Troy

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    Your tellin me??? pfft, should be on Springer for christs sake. I have heard stories about mentioned step daughter but didn't believe most of them.
     
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    so you've known her since she was 8 years old? that's kinda gross. i mean, it's one thing to acknowledge that she's grown up into an attractive woman, but to be attracted to a little girl that you saw grow up is kinda creepy.

    i don't know about you, but i get that parent syndrome, where i see them still as little kids even though they're all grown up.

    with that said, you have to tell your wife, like yesterday. the longer you hold out, the worse it will be. technically, you've done nothing wrong, so just tell her.
     

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