what would you do in this situation?

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  1. reallyneedmoney

    reallyneedmoney New Member

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    I'll try to keep the reading as short as possible. I started this new job recently while I finish my degree. Then I met this hot blonde chick b/c she always smiled at me and says hello to me even though we do not work in the same dept. Now she even comes up to me and tries to make small talk with me. She probalby is a friendly person but she only talks to me instead of any of my other coworkers. The thing is I believe she has a bf b/c on her desk there is this picture of her and some brown dude. So what does this girl want from me? It's tempting to ask her out but at the same time it's highly likely that she has a bf.
     
  2. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    you are the new guy

    she is trying to win you over

    i would first want to know how your co-workers feel about her
     
  3. MattThom01

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    so, ask if she has a bf. If she says no, then ask her out. If she says yes, no harm done, because you didn't ask her out.
     
  4. Brigante

    Brigante i'm a lurker without an avatar, deal with it

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    never assume a girl you're attracted to has a boyfriend. just ask. trust me from experience, you could miss out on something good. for all you know, he could be a brother or cousin.
     
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    Ask coworkers about her first, then ask about the boyfriend second. If its a no, ask her out! :)
     
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    "Hey, are you single?"

    It's that simple.
     
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    She's feeling you out to see what she can get out of you. If she DOES have a boyfriend, then she's looking for another sucker to buy her things and listen to her whine.

    If she's single, you've got about 1 more day to ask her on a date.
     
  8. reallyneedmoney

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    I figure I won't be asking her out due to the fact that it might create awkwardness.. but she did a good job getting into my head
     
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    :greddy:
     
  10. JJM Enterprises

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    If she was right in your department, it might create awkwardness. But since she's not, there's no harm no foul if you don't have to deal with her on a daily basis. Go for it!
     
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    well you said she likes to have small talk with you, so she already is intiatiing a convo, half the work is done for you, so let the small talk lead into asking her if she is taken
     
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    If you're going to do it, just ask her on a date. Get her phone number. If she balks, you know she's either not interested or not single.
     

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