What to talk about on first dates.... *Need ideas*

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  1. Bmwheel98

    Bmwheel98 OT's Freeloader.

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    Anything? Both coming out of a long term relationship so been outta the loop. Im 21 shes 18.... anything? Waiting for :rofl: and smart ass replies. But I'll take em.:noes:
     
  2. SweetDaddyO

    SweetDaddyO we need a montage!!

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    the first date is the easiest....all the topics are open for conversation. family, friends, funny stories, hobbies, likes and dislikes.

    it's usually the second or third date i find to be the hardest when it comes to conversation.
     
  3. bigmick

    bigmick The plane takes off OT Supporter

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    Talk about your collection of mint condition action figures.
     
  4. GTS4eva

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    Tell her how you actually went online and asked for a conversation topic
     
  5. LOSAT

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    Nothing heavy. Just breezy shit like movies, bands, work.

    You're best to always reccy the place you're going to beforehand i.e resturant/bar just so you know what to expect and look confident.
     
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    Tell your next date that you have no Av.
     
  7. purplebeast

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    1st and foremost. Tell her why you broke up with the last one. Tell her everything u hate about ur ex. Also, tell her ur ex was a sex goddes and u been sexually spolied. Anything other than a mind blowing orgasm is a deal breaker for u. And ask her if she is on the pill, cuz u like it raw. But she is gonna be on her own if u knock her up.































































































    All joking aside. Let her do most of the talking. Ur main job is to ask proving questions and appear interested. I say keep it fairly basic and thruout the night, slowly ask more serious question. Feel her out for visual feedback, it will let u know if she is confortable or if she wants to keep the convo more superficial.
     
  8. quamen

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    On the first date i usually end up asking her more quesions about herself and letting her do most of the talking. Also, if you really want to get her and like her, this is a good tatic. She will go home and actually realize she hasnt learned much about you, and want to go on another date and keep her working for a while
     
  9. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    :bigthumb: Great advice, and usually also why I never make it past a first "date" (usually a 'lunch on campus' deal). I ask questions and find out enough to know that I don't want another date; let alone what she may or may not want. :o
     
  10. Bugalu

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    ask questrions about HER... everyone loves talking about themselfves
     
  11. scaryice

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    Wow, does that make you better than him?
     
  12. Jarrod923

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    i'm sure that would work. fag.
     
  13. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    take her somewhere fun, avoid the movies/dinner bullshit

    try something like mini golf, to shoot pool, something where there is some sort of action involved, so the pressure is taken off of making conversation just to make conversation so there is something to do.

    keep it light, and like other people have said, ask lots of questions, but make sure to pay attention.....

    and have fun, cause even if yall dont work out atleast the night wasnt a total waste
     
  14. chica&buddies

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    good idea.... i have a way of doing that with guys. i can twist every question asked back onto a guy. i don't usually like to get TOO personal unless they're someone special. :) i'd rather learn more about someone else.
     
  15. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    Yeah, and you'd piss me off with that.... "Just answer the damn question, woman! What the hell are you trying to hide!!" ;)
     
  16. chica&buddies

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    :rofl: :slap: i never said that i wouldn't answer the question. i'm just saying that i like learning (and will remember damn near everything!) about people. :o maybe it's the psychology/philosophy in me ;)
     
  17. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    That's kinda what you implied, like you'd double back and try asking me a question to avoid answering one :dunno:
     
  18. chica&buddies

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    nah... i'm pretty open, if i get the vibe that the guy is actually interested. i'm really easygoing and love having fun, but if they're boring, too into themselves, and cocky as all hell... i'm disgusted, and honestly, i pry wouldn't even TRY to hold the conversation.
     
  19. red97gst

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    remember this acronym:

    FORM


    Family (where shes from, are parents together, maybe throw something liek "yeah my parents were addicted to crystal meth for a while too!"
    Occupation (including school)
    Recreation (hobbies, what she does on weekends, travel, "where do u dream of going")
    Motivation (what is her deal? what does she hope to accomplish in this world, and why does she get out of bed in the mornings?)

    Now an 18 yr old girl is going to have a heavy weighting on soem categories more than others, specifically "motivation" probably is more like "yeah my parents want me to ...." but find out what gets her ticking
     
  20. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    :eek3: I've never seen it put quite like that before... but that's awesome :bigthumb:
     
  21. red97gst

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    it comes from network marketing.....AKA personal sales.....

    selling products to people is a lot like selling yourself to a woman :bigthumb: :hsd:
     
  22. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    Very true; I've never had "formal training" but I've learned much about marketing and sales from being around my family's business. The "acronym" approach does make it alot easier to keep track of than going at it in random fashion though :cool:
     
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    just ask questions, questions and more questions.
     

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