Hey guys, I have quite the situation hoping some of you can give me some assistance/guidance as to what I should do. I met this girl probably just a little over a month ago through a casual friend, we decided to meet up one night at Earls and have a drink...we seemed to get along really well right off the bat, it was almost strange how well. Time goes on and we seem to be hanging out more and more, really enjoying each others company. I find out that she has an "ex" per say that she was just seeing prior, all I know is that he hurt her and at the time she was insistent of not getting back together with him, just to be friends. Over the last little while I've developed feelings for this girl like no over, it would just seem like the right thing to do to date this girl, right? Wrong. Apparently she just wants to be friends with me, upon recently I've learned that I'm one of her best friends, "almost like a brother" so I am told. She talks about this other guy, sometimes the story is they are just going to be friends, and sometimes she doesn't know what is going on...which really throughs my hopes and dreams right down into the toilet. She always tells me how much of an amazing guy I am and how she loves spending time with me. Which just makes me think that maybe we could get into something a little more serious? I've never really felt this way before towards a girl, and this would have been the first serious relationship that I have been in...part of me feels like I just can't let her go because she is such an amazing person and we get a long so well, but the other half of me is just saying walk away it's not worth the trouble. Lately I've been feeling absolutely sick to my stomach and wanting to through up, but I don't really feel sick at all...I hope this is not because of the whole situation. I need your help OT, what do you think I should do?