What to do?

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  1. The Acclude

    The Acclude Makin' love is cool, but sometimes she needs her h

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    So the EX and I ended on good terms. I can talk to her about whatever. She wanted to hang out and go get drinks so I told her like 2 months ago this past weekend would be the weekend. SHe has two days off, and she blew it off to go do something else. I know they are exes for a reason, but my judgement is clouded because she is obviously talking to someone else. Just that it seems like you shouldn't cancel plans with a friend like that.

    So my question is this. Do I bother telling her it bothered me, or just say fuck it, and start ignoring/not talking to her?
     
  2. krondo

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    well do you still talk to her? cause if you do then i'd suggest telling her that she's a cold bitch for blowing you off, (unless it was an emergency but that's not what i'm getting from this) but if you don't talk to her that much i'd just suggest letting her go her own way without you man just ignore her sooner or later she'll either stop trying to contact you and you wont have to worry about this or she'll just tell you she's sorry and try to have sex with you
     
  3. The Acclude

    The Acclude Makin' love is cool, but sometimes she needs her h

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    I just catch her up on my current relationship, she gives me the occasional update of whats going on in her life. I dated the girl on and off for 6 years. So I just feel like there should be loyalty to someone you knew so long/ grew up with.
     
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    Nope, don't tell her it bothered you. You have nothing to gain by doing so. She was wrong for doing that, just accept it and know that people can only do to you what you allow them to do. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that she pissed you off, just realize that you aren't very high on her list of priorites and give the same in return.
     
  5. The Acclude

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    :cool: that makes sense.
     
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    you know, I've been in my share of break ups where we said we'd keep in contact, remain friends, blah, blah, but it's normally short lived, for one reason or another. It can be fun while it lasts, especially if you're fuck buddies, but at some point someone will move on, you just gotta know that and be ready for it when it happens. In your case, I wouldn't ignore here cause i'm a vengeful bastard, I'd take her call like it was all good, make plans even, then fake on her.
     
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    Ignore/avoid/evade/elude/dump/erase/her.
     

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