what to do in this situation..

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  1. poz

    poz New Member

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    I met this girl a few years ago through a friend and we only talked online really because she lived pretty far away. I found out recently that she moved about 15min away from where I go to school, so I added her on facebook. I sent her a message saying we should go out sometime and gave her my number, and she responded and gave me her number as well. Well, I was busy all weekend so I couldn't really do much. I was on facebook the other day and saw that she's in a relationship now. I still think I want to grab lunch or something with her, but I'm not sure if I should considering she has a SO now. Wtf should I do?
     
  2. PcH

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    If you still want to do lunch, give her a call and ask. Doesn't matter if she has a SO, but I personally wouldn't get my hopes up of anything more than friendship.
     
  3. poz

    poz New Member

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    :werd: I have respect for her SO, but at the same time, I don't think I want to be friendzoned. Fuuuu :hs:
     
  4. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Move on and find a chick that doesn't have an SO.
     
  5. PcH

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    You're gonna be friendzoned :hs: Move on if you want moar
     
  6. poz

    poz New Member

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    :werd: guess that's what i gotta do. i'll still probably call her to grab food though.
     
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    Friendzone her first... that will show her.
     
  8. poz

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    :hsugh:
     
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    ask her out to lunch and find out if she has a bf or what the deal is. Maybe she just put that there or whatever...
     
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  11. poz

    poz New Member

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    well, she texted me randomly earlier asking whats up and i told her we should go eat and it looks like we're going this week. hmm :dunno:
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Going to lunch with her would probably do nothing honestly.
     
  13. poz

    poz New Member

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    Yeah, you're probably right. Either way, i am still going to hang out with her regardless if it's just for friendship or for a relationship.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    As long as you remind yourself that it could easily go into friendzone...that's all that matters.
     

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