SRS What the hell?

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  1. Animall0versist

    Animall0versist New Member

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    I went out with this guy.
    We were together for 3 weeks when one morning he txt me and broke up with me, saying we were just too different. We didnt talk for a while but saw each other at the SPCA, where i gave him the cold shoulder. Then we started txtin each other heaps and he was always flirting with me despite how i constantly shot him down and last night he said he still has feelings for me. Whats up with him?
     
  2. PunkInDrublic

    PunkInDrublic Active Member

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    Leave it alone. If you guys are playing games now, it'll just be worse later.
     
  3. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    Sounds like he wants what he can't have...

    He originally broke up since he had you and since he had you he no longer wanted you. When you gave him the cold shoulder he suddenly realized he can't have you, so now he wants you.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's pretty obvious just from your very short-detailed post. Every time you start ignoring him or "giving him the cold shouder" he's more attracted. Men like the chase. So pretty much every time you act as if you want nothing to do with him his insecure self goes into overdrive trying to get your attention. It's probably the same when he ignores you, you want to know more and more why and call/text him.

    Either way, sounds immature and HS. I'd say move on and find a guy who knows what he wants....and that's you.
     
  5. IHAMWETARDDID

    IHAMWETARDDID "We could make babies and accidental songs..."

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    very true. playing games with your emotions, FTL :ugh:
     
  6. Dysfnctnl85

    Dysfnctnl85 IT/Apple/Rotary/(D)SLR Crew

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    Any guy who plays games with you is NOT worth your time.
     
  7. Animall0versist

    Animall0versist New Member

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    thanks guys, you people rock!
     
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    GregFarz78 New Member

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    He started dating you, saw another girl he thought he had a good chance with, broke up with you, the other girl probably shot him down, tried to get you back

    amirite?
     
  9. IHAMWETARDDID

    IHAMWETARDDID "We could make babies and accidental songs..."

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    I would say so
     
  10. Animall0versist

    Animall0versist New Member

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    Yeah he txt me last night saying " I wanna see your beautiful smile, i wanna feel your hair in my face, i wanna feel your hand in mine and your lips on my lips...I want you back"
     
  11. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    He's playing games with you. Not worth your time. And he just wants you back because like everyone else says you shot him down and gave him the cold shoulder. You never know what you have, until you lose it.
     
  12. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    Sounds about right to me.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Do it if you want to waste your time.

    If he had liked you enough the first time he wouldn't have been so immature. You should feel good about yourself and tell him you are over him and move on to another guy who won't be so hot and cold. Because he may want you back now...but he'll most likely do the exact same thing again in the future.
     
  14. Animall0versist

    Animall0versist New Member

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    Thats scary, thats the exact thing he said as his reason for breaking up with me the first time, and why he regreted it
     
  15. Takitome

    Takitome New Member

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    Maybe it's a scheme to mold you into this role where you let him get away with anything.
     
  16. Animall0versist

    Animall0versist New Member

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    you guys give really good advice, this has cleared my head a lot
     
  17. Dysfnctnl85

    Dysfnctnl85 IT/Apple/Rotary/(D)SLR Crew

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    This place is awesome. :hug:
     
  18. Hellcat

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    People use that line all the time, don't fall for it.
     
  19. Animall0versist

    Animall0versist New Member

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    We after we broke up he still txt me every night to say goodnight and lately informs me he loves me, its so weird = (
     
  20. MattThom01

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    after only 3 weeks? Yeah, this guy is either just trying to get back with you because it didn't go through with the other girl, or he is psycho.

    Or both.

    Breaking up after just 3 weeks is usually an indicator of a lack of chemistry or compatability, so why would you want to even think about getting back with him, right?
     
  21. Animall0versist

    Animall0versist New Member

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    well we're only 14...
     
  22. Dysfnctnl85

    Dysfnctnl85 IT/Apple/Rotary/(D)SLR Crew

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    Love is an overused word.

    That's all I'm going to say.
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: at 14 this kid is just trying to get back into your pants. Please ignore him and move on...please.
     
  24. XxvODvxX

    XxvODvxX New Member

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    i'm with iwishyouwerebeer.....at 14 just walk away he'll regret it when you guys get older....
     
  25. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    I would figure, that's what my ex said when I broke up with him :hs:
     

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