SRS what the fuck

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  1. familyguy101

    familyguy101 New Member

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    i remember when i was still in 7th grade and my friends and I were all real good buddies who hung out every single day. there was one kid who i remember that was a friend of mine in particular. I remember that his parents would always push him and see that he participated in school activities. They always wanted to keep him buisy so he never became a lazy bum. Now that highschool is ending for us, I can finally see why. this kid is very talanted with music, smart, friendly, and after high school, he'll be going to some high class, very good school and become even smarter, make lots of money, live comfortably, and always be looked up to by society. meanwhile,i come home from school, don't do shit for 2 hours, go to work, come home, watch tv and then go to bed around 1am. it's very sad and i never imagined that I would become such a pathetic loser, especially since i was very alive and carefree when I was in 7th-8th grade. in highschool I started to get depressed and now I suck. anyway, my parents never pushed me as hard as his did. it's finally paying off. i just thought it was very interesting to see how todays youth spruts into tomorrows leaders, and the rest of us just follow and become another face in the crowd. so what the fuck? i can't believe that there was a point in time when I considered myself equal to him. it's not just me and him though. I see that most of our group went in different directions. How could I have predicted this to happen? how is a young child supposed to make smart decisions if their parents don't lead them. All we ever did in highschool was sit around and get high, at this point we weren't even friends anymore. I really think there should be some system setup where everyone has a mentor until a certain age. Once again, what the fuck?
     
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    Don't dawt on it. People told you and you should have realized a few years ago where you were headed. Your parents should have...Screw all that. It's behind you. You've learned from your mistake and now see the light.

    Tell me now: What are you going to do to correct it? You are young, and it is most definitely not too late. No plan? No problem. Where do you want to go?
     
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    i don't know. i don't care. People constantly ask what do i WANT to be when I grow up. I don't WANT to be anything. If anything, I want to start my own business because I can't stand working for someone else.
     
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    and of coarse people tell you. but nobody exxagerates the point and as a stupid kid, you simply listen to what they just said, you don't care, so you just dismiss it.
     
  5. Darketernal

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    Be sure that the power of your will has ambition to feed it by pressurizing yourself into constructive activities that will lead to a bigger wallet. This is purely for your own interest as doing nothing , results in nothing.

    Therefore kick your own ass , and become a bussinesman. Spiritually, become a loving and helping person.

    Start out small, and then devellope something bigger, and don't let anything stop you or discourage you. Don't look at the things you don't have , or at other people who had this fortunate stimulation of parents, at this point looking at that is pointless, bunches of what is to come ,and actually mostly everyting in terms of outcome in life is determined by your own actions.

    You really don't want to blame anyone , stop complaining and strive to make something of your life today.
     
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    Don't look so far ahead. What do you want out of tomorrow? How about next week? Set some small goals. The big goals will seem obvious if you start small.
     
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    Stop being so hard pn yurself. Everyone has a different path. If you want something, really want it, there are no boundaries
     
  8. onslaught61

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    you just have to let go of the past. bringing up the past is just going to let you down again and again. your friend's not necessarily going to be 'more respected' than you in the future or any of that shit. the things that matter are the relationships you have and what type of person you are. the mundane things like jobs, money, popularity, etc. don't bring true happiness nor do they shape who you are.
     

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