I'm not necessarily depressed over what I am going to type as I am just slightly upset and beginning to get frustrated in it. I go to the same club every saturday, it's free and I know a lot of people. Me and a friend of mine are basically the dancers in the place. Not hired, not "technically", but....we dance. A lot. No BBAy, just hip-hop. I live in Atlanta, so do the math. The clubs we go to have stages. One upstairs has a big stage, down has 2 small side stages. I'm white, he is black. This isn't exactly important but....we gel together well and bounce off each other. I draw the most attention because...well...i'm white and know how to dance. I'm also 6'5" 190 so that helps. The past few weeks i've been adding to my "skill set" and have gotten bigger and bigger crowds of people watching me and my friend dance. My issue is that I will notice, and spot, women staring all night and I won't bother to approach and say anything. Now, naturally, I am: Short Tempered Angry Reserved/Slightly Shy I am going through some anger management right now. Working on my temper. Like a waitress at my job said "I think you mean well and have a good heart, honestly....but you just suck at controlling yourself." She is right, to a T. Someone pushes me, i'm punching them. Someone talks shit to me, i'm punching them. My point is that for all the attention given to me, it should be easy for me to break this horrid 4 month sexless drought i've been in. I've considered contacting 2 of my previous fuck buddies, but I can't bring myself to it. I find it so much easier to meet women when I end droughts, but right now, it's the hardest drought ever. Right now, I don't want to find a date in a club. I just want to fuck. I've hit a wall. I don't understand how I can stand in front of 30-40 people watching me dance while more then half are females, some waving and what not, and I won't do a damn thing. If they come up on stage or stop me when I walk by, i'm fine. Over the last month i've gotten 3 numbers, I was just stood up each time. I don't really know what to expect from this forum as I don't post here, but i'm not going to look for some PUA garbage on the internet. Honestly, I think this is more to do with my anger management than anything. Ever since i've taken a strong approach to controlling myself better 2 months ago, I've found it unbelievably difficult to be out going with people I don't know unless you approach me. Before, I found myself more out going. I'm lost. Seriously. Thinking of this makes me angry and as I tell my friends, puts me into "beast mode" where I just want to look for a fight. I already expect to go into work @ 6PM tomorrow angry just by thinking about how I suck at approaching, or lack thereof, women.