Ok so tomorrow is my birthday and my ex-gf sent me a online greeting card just saying "i wanted to wish you a early happy birthday". I have not seen, herd, or talked to in over a month. When i saw the message my heart stopped. I dont know if she is being nice and just sending me a card or she is ready to start talking to me again cuz we agreeed to be friends after. My b-day would also be our 1 year aniversary. So i repled back (dont know if that was a good idea) with another thank you card. Just saying thanks for the card thats it. What should I do? Should I try again and try talking to her and see if she is ready to talk to me again or just wait for her to contact me if she wants to or just forget about it all and move on? I loved this girl a lot and we went our seperate ways with no burnt bridges, and I know she has feelings for me but she is the one the threw in the towel. I know Im kinda over reacting since this is first contact I have had with her in over a month, I was good for the last little while but lately I have been thinking about her again. Any advice on what I should do?