Ive been talking to this girl for about 3 months now who is from where I am but relocated to Philly (perm.) for school, not long after we started talking. She is 22 (Im 26), and though we have never met in person - we have exchanged pics and seen each other on cam etc. We met through a local message board (a site a lot like OT), and one day she PMed me and we just hit it off right there. No it wasnt a dating or fling site. We have really good chemistry, a lot in common - she has a lot of qualities I look for in a woman and vice versa. Now, I havent been taking things too seriously at all since Im not a huge fan of long distance relationships, and frankly I came into getting to know her with no expectations. If something comes out of it, then great - if not, then so be it...its not the end of the world. However, she feels different... Recently she has told me that he has been developing feelings for me. Every single time we talk, she always tells me how great of a person she thinks I am and how happy she feels inside when she talks to me. I really enjoy talking to her, she is a great person - and if she was local, she would definitely be someone I would hang out and spend time with. Just tonight, out of nowhere...(was totally taken by surprise), as we were having a good convo. and were talking about some goofy stuff. She all of a sudden, goes "I have to go sorry." By the tone of her voice, I knew something was wrong, it was very obvious. I asked her that and to tell me what was bothering her. She hesitated the first couple times, but after I kept insisting on her telling me what was bothering her. I asked if it was something I said, she said "no" ...she goes "You are such a great guy and each time we talk, my feelings towards you grow stronger and stronger....Im scared of getting hurt again....I dont want to have to go through that again....or even take the risk...Im just scared" I didnt know what to say to that, I was totally shocked because of how sudden she pulled a complete 180 in the convo. And she just kept saying after "I gotta go" So I said, ok bye. So I dont know what to do or think of this. Is this girl full of games? sound unstable? insecure? I mean she just told me earlier this evening (for the 100th time) how great of a guy she thinks I am and how she is falling for me and wants to take things one step further...then all of a sudden pulls a complete 180 and just erupts with an immediate "goodbye" For some reason, I just have a feeling she will get in touch with me again - not sure if i should move on, try listener to her some more and hoping to make her get past her worries...or?