what makes an attracitve personality?

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    I was reading in another thread that most girls place alot of emphasize on having a good personality and not on looks,but what makes a good personality? I think mine is shit because i havnet been that great with the ladies lately, well also do the to the fact that im a pussy shit and have to not be scared of them either.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    well we like a guy who is secure in himself...so work on that first.
     
  3. Nev

    Nev OT Supporter

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    If you are fun and confident .. you are golden.
     
  4. Spiritus

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    Our current style with woman is flawed.

    They have fought for equal rights.

    Look, some of the woman here are fucking feminists.

    Where are our men movements?

    They have been fighting for rights, and getting them for ages.

    Yet, the "tradition" of the old times STILL exists.

    This creates much burden on the modern male, who has to exist in a world of old tradition and new rights.

    Therefor it is our duty to adapt.

    Join us... sosuave.com

    Our philosophies are flawed. We must adapt to these new viscious waters. It is no longer good enough to be a parantah, become a parantah killer.
     
  5. Spiritus

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    We have many signs to watch out for too.

    You can still be fucked over being fun and confident. Still not good enough.

    They have been reading articles on "how to get the perfect guy" "how to look uber hot" "how to tell what a guy is thinking".

    We have been... beating off to porn.

    Time to log off bangbus and log on sosuave and learn the new way.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    stop promoting your cult site :ugh:
     
  7. Nev

    Nev OT Supporter

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    well i'd say i'm fun and confident...and really have no problem with women

    So whatever you are spewing, i can't really understand it.
     
  8. BradUF

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    When all these girls say secure and fun blah blah blah etc.. They just mean a guy who can walk into a room and talk to every single person in there and get everyones attention. Be the one that stands out of the entire room.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    which is a guy who is secure in himself and fun....
     
  10. Spiritus

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    You didn't go to www.sosuave.com

    Go to it now.

    Yep, click on the link.

    Go in and check how cult it is.

    Oh wait, it is about getting woman.

    I guess you jumped to conclusions!

    :hsugh:
     
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  11. Spiritus

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    :cool: Now I don't have to hear the whining.
     
  12. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    His first post was right on imo, and the second makes sense.

    sosuave.com is a good site if you can stay away from the forums, which are absolute shit.
     
  13. Yail Bloor

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    You are telling me that you are scared of women?

    Why?

    What do you think she can do to you exactly? You do realize that men are more powerful than women, right?

    Men built the world as it exists today. What have women done, other than raise babies, whine and complain, and create feminism?

    This is not to say we should hate women. Hell I love women. But they are the weaker sex and that is an indisputable fact.

    You have been raised by a society and a culture that has so thoroughly brainwashed you that you believe you are inferior to a woman. Its just not the case!

    Until you love and accept yourself and truly feel that you are as good as everyone else, you will not be able have the success you desire, with women and with life in general.

    I wish I could climb inside your head and make you love yourself. I feel lucky everyday that I've learned to love myself. I wasn't always this way. I used to be insecure and have low self-esteem too. But goddamnit that's no way to live.

    You guys have to wake up.

    And forget about "what do women want" and "what personalities to women want."

    Read Double Your Dating. He explains exactly what women are attracted to and why, and I can guarantee you that whatever ideas you have in your head about what women are attracted to are wrong.

    When you reach the point that you are confident and comfortable with yourself, that's when you are truly free to "just be yourself" and I promise you women will love you for it.

    You've got to get her off the pedestal and you've got to build yourself up. If you aren't going to do these things, you need to shut the fuck up and just give up man because that's the only way its going to happen.
     
  14. Spiritus

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    That gentleman Viper is usually out to get me. I guess our opinions conflict or something. I think it is good for both of us that we won't be speaking to each other :)
     
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    Misogyny FTL.
     
  16. Spiritus

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    Essentially, be a fisher of men (and woman). Socialize, network, be easy to approach, pick up the social skills.

    A lot of people do not have the ability or want this ability though. I think that is reality.

    EDIT: And even if you have this ability, it does not make you that much superior. You are in the game, but do you have that unique intuition which you gain from insight on other peoples experiances (opinions).

    Beleive it or not, the info on the internet when combined with practical socialization can make you much more adept at reading a girl. There is a lot of shit already found out, that you do not have to find out on your own, basically.
     
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    For both sexes: Get a sense of humor, pronto.
     
  18. Falconer

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    Emotional maturity.
     
  19. sportsjunkie

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    if you have the same personality as me basically :mamoru:

    but seriously, i look for:
    humor
    intellect
    charisma/charm
    frankness
    confidence
    sense of balance

    it's not rocket science really. you can't make your personality, you are who you are; you just aren't for some people
     
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    smart, moral, playful, upbeat, responsible, reserved....

    generally goes for both sexes.
     
  21. Elphaba

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    "I'm a man who discovered the wheel and built the Eiffel Tower out of metal and brawn. That's what kind of man I am. You're just a woman with a small brain. With a brain a third the size of us. It's science." :rofl:
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: @ me imagining you in any of the woman's studies classes I've taken
     
  23. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    great post.

    im actually confident in myself to a certain extent. I feel good about myself,joined the gym a year ago and feel even better, i guess im at square one rejection. As if im trying to pickup woman and i dont know what to say, or how to act, or afraid she is going ot be thinking who is this fucking tool. Stuff like that races inside my head, making me worried of the outcome.

    either way that is one great post and very motivational.




     
  24. Nev

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    You are NOT confident.
     
  25. Spiritus

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    Thats not helping either.

    Listen to this:

    Did you hear it?

    Silence. No I, you, her, confidence. None of that shit.

    These - these are all just words.

    Action - That is where reality happens.

    Sir. Talking on this forum will probally not get you the advice you need. People are telling you to be everything you arent.

    I have already suggested sosuave, and on their forum pook has some good advice.

    But that advice has to be made into action, that is where learning happens.
     

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