FRK what is your safe word?

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  1. 01000101

    01000101 New Member

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    the new SO and i are trying to decide what our safe word will be and that got me wondering what other people use for theirs. she said she wanted something funny that made us laugh, but we're having problems deciding on something.
     
  2. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    Cool topic!

    You know, its funny..but i always just said his name. Most of my fantasies were rape related and the fact that i would say his name in the middle of it would be so out of place, it got his attention. My tone, the obsurdity of saying his name when he was supposed to be a "stranger" all got his attention.
     
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    The fact that you and you're SO have the forethought to consider a safe word impresses me deeply.

    Its best to use something completly off the wall, If you're going to getinto breath play you may also want to consider something for either you or you're SO to hold on to as its not always possible to speak.
     
  4. 01000101

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    a non verbal 'safe word' is easier i think, the one that cant speak can just hang onto car keys or something thats at hand when things start.
     
  5. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    We don't really have one. I guess we're not that freaky. :dunno:
     
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  8. AcedThis1

    AcedThis1 ...is that something u would be into? OT Supporter

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    is a safe word necessary?
     
  9. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    to ensure that you are both on the same playing field sinc ein some play the typical "please" "don't" "stop" can easily just be a "don't stop, Please!". Safe word keeps things from going over the edge in a bad way.

    I've only used it once and it was for somethign stupid. Tigre and I also use it when He wants to be sure I'm not giving him the "Yes Sir" because I just want to be complacent, He'll pop out of the D/s thing with the safe word and make SURE I'm agreeing to something of my own free will.
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :werd: We have juggling balls.... or he'll hold my hand or something. He always gets the hint if things are going a little overboard.
     
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    AcedThis1 ...is that something u would be into? OT Supporter

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    ahhhh i see... ok i gotta think of one then. :wiggle:
     
  12. 01000101

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    "no.. stop.." can mean "quit what you're doing right now" or "for the love of GOD don't stop doing that"

    but "canada" means "put on the brakes, somethings not right"
     
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    excactly... Our "safe word" is "bannana"

    I hate that word :naughty:

    We even use it out of context as well... Any time my wife wants me to stop doing something w/o anyone else knowing she wants me to stop she'll say bannana
     
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    I've thought of banana as a safe word before...

    I reckon if your SO yelled out "banana!" during sex you'd just stop and go "what the hell?!?!?!".. it'd work well :mamoru:
     
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    I think we got it from Family Guy... How ironic, nice avatar :p
     
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    I dunno where I got it from, but I watch a lot of Family Guy :big grin:
     
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    Suicide Pinai flawed if i'm not free

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    me and my ex used to use "penguin" :hsughw:
     
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    A little off topic, but:

    What is "breath play"?
     
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    FairyTat Anticipation, the taste of things to cum

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    Pickle always worked well for me.
     
  22. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    I have asked this before... still no answer... dangit!
     
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    I just did a quick search and found out that I was thinking on the right track....

    http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/breath_play.htm

     
  24. 01000101

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    *cough* thread jack!
     
  25. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Thank you!! I am glas someone is doing their homework...

    And 01000101... not at thread "jack" per say. Just borrowing it for a few posts.

    Thank you, we are done now

    :)
     

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