What is wrong with me?

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  1. Costanza

    Costanza OT Supporter

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    I met this new girl and she's amazing. Honestly one of the greatest girls I've met in a long time. We've known each other for about 2 weeks now and everything has gone perfect until we had sex for the first time last night.... Or at least tried to. I'm normally into skinny, fit girls but this one is kind of thick. Fat of course by OT standards but in the real world, not. Everything was fine until she got naked and then my erection just went away. Why can't I perform with anyone that is just the slightest bit overweight?
     
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    Cause you're not attracted to her with her clothes off?
     
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    Are you sure it's a matter of her being up to your "standards" or your psyching yourself out of it? Maybe your putting too much of an emphasis on it.
     
  4. Costanza

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    Thats what I think it is more then anything. I don't know how to prevent myself from doing it though.
     
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    Maybe it's from all the porn you watch with skinny, young looking girls with fake breasts?
     
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    happened before? A belief like that is a reason all its own
     
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    Had this happen once to me... best thing i can tell you... Don't think, just go with the flow... kinda stupid but it worked for me...
     
  8. Costanza

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    Everything was fine and working until my phone rang and it completly got me out of the mood. Fuck getting old :rofl:
     
  9. antihero

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    How old are you?
     
  10. Costanza

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    That phone call wasn't in the original post. Is the issue that you got side tracked or she got naked and lost your chub? Two completely different issues.
     
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    I was fine when she first got naked and was giving me head. It was great. But for the past week I've been overthinking her weight and was worried that I would find her unattractive when naked. I guess the question is more, how do I stop myself from overthinking this and just not worry about anything.
     
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    what do you mean whats wrong with you? nothing is wrong.

    you have a preference. chubby girls is not it. find a cool girl that you think is attractive.

    sounds like you want this to happen bc she's a cool girl. you think she is good for you....

    cottage cheese is good for me. everytime i try to eat it it makes me wanna puke. so i stopped eating it and replaced it w. something good for me that i also enjoy.
     
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    i'm the same way. if i'm not really attracted to a girl, i have trouble maintaining an erection. i'm sure a large part of it is mental, but i have actually kicked girls out of bed because basically, it wasn't gonna happen.

    i think i'm just weird that way. i have to be really physically attracted to a girl to have sex with her. being into her on an emotional level helps also.
     
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    same here. i dont care how cool the girl is. if i dont find her attractive its not gonna happen.

    i learned that from one girl. i still kept it up but didnt even cum. dumped her short after.
     
  16. Costanza

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    Here is a picture of a fat Kelly Clarkson. This girl I'm messing with is not even close to this fat. I think I need to stop basing my idea women's body on porn stars :rolleyes:

    [​IMG]
     
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    yeah you got issues :\
     
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    :rofl:
    need more test bro
     
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    Or you're psyched out.

    Every once in a while my dick doesn't work right even when I'm with a hot gf. This has happened with all my gfs, and they've all been hot.

    With me it's a mental state.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :eek3: Holy shit Kelly Clarkson got really big
     
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    Yeah she did, so upsetting :wtc:
     
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    notice he never once said he found her unnatractive.

    I <3 my dick. I should buy it something nice for xmas.
     
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    :werd:

    I was thinking custom condoms :o
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Penis Sweater!

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  25. antihero

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    lol.. I like it
     

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