What is the creepy guy?

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  1. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    Exactly what makes a guy, "the creepy guy"? Is it just a title for every guy that tries to pick up a girl and fails or is it how they try to pick up a girl. What are the characteristics?
     
  2. demosnat

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    Its like porn, I can't define it, but I know it when I see it.
    in my experience:

    -men who are MUCH older than me
    -making overtly, non jesting, sexual remarks when I don't know them, ie guy at bus stop telling me I have lovely breasts.
    -continuing this behavior after I make it clear its unwelcome (this is the big one)
    -predatorial
    -Saying shits that just, well fucking weird. At my work, the dishwasher, this 400 lb, old, smelly disgusting man saw me in street clothes
    him: man, we've gotta fatten you up girl, you ain't nothin but skin and bones
    me:awkward mumbling of something like 'if you say so'
    him: (almost ot self) gotta get you fat so no one else wants you
    I do not fucking get if he meant my bf should get me fat so no one else wants me, or if I should do so for my own sake, or what, I got half of a sentence to himself, it was fucking weird.
     
  3. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    the creepy guy is the one who looks to gain something from a girl. it's all about him and his experience. instead of offering something to a girl (and everyone else), he intends to make her "his".
     
  4. RebootEnzo

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    Sorry, I would have to be a bit more forward with girls to be the creepy guy.
     
  5. Jack Horner

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    Sorry dude, I think you might be that guy.
     
  6. KindlyCuddly

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    coming across like you have some unspoken motive.
     
  7. RebootEnzo

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    If I really must explain all three quotes on here.

    First quote

    It is quite true because giving a girl her rating in real life would only result in complications because no girl likes to hear they are less than 10.

    I really don't see how this is creepy but if you say so.

    I am only saying what has been said on these forums a million fucking times. That hot girls do not get approached because every guy assumes they have a boyfriend.
     
  8. demosnat

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    Nope, you can be really creepy by being the guy leering in the corner
     
  9. JordanClarkson

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    That was kinda creepy of you to estalk him like that :mamoru:
     
  10. demosnat

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    You're all a bunch of creepsters
     
  11. RebootEnzo

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    lol I know far too many people to leer in the corner.
     
  12. demosnat

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    I wasn't talking about you champ.
     
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    My best friend (nicknamed "The Anti-Poon" for a reason) is creepy around girls.

    Rather than trying to get girls to like him, he'll just straight up ask fat girls "Do you want to fuck?" --- The sad thing is is that he asks a lot of girls this, and he usually fucks at least a girl a month.

    I don't bring this guy around girls I'm dating :)
     
  14. razi

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    creepy has many different flavors. it could be the drunk old guy, it could be the quiet guy staring at a girl from a distance. It could be the guy who's too forward, or the guy who just acts funny.

    basically, it boils down to making said person (usually a girl, but not always) uncomfortable- specifically sexually. it ultimately depends on the girl and depends on the guy.

    I think bambambigelow hit it on the head, but thinking you've got something to offer a girl might mean you just need her validation.

    For example, you could be the most stable, interesting, handsome guy in the world, but one off-color joke about "three-holin" to the wrong person at the wrong time and BAM! Creepy guy.
     
  15. Dahlia

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    I was actually serious.. I wasn't asking for some bullshit answer.. and I'm comfortable with myself to take criticism.


    And for the topic.. I hate going dancing, and seeing all the guys lined up around the edges of the dance floor, just staring at you like you are a piece of meat. Atleast come up and talk, or dance, or find some other guy to talk to.
     
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    horrid responses.

    a creepy guy is an ugly/weird looking guy staring at someone for extended periods of time or an ugly/weird looking guy making sexual remarks towards a woman
     
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    creepy guy is the guy who communicates in all the wrong ways, and is obsessive.

    But to break it down...any or all of these can make a guy (or girl) creepy:

    Long periods of staring.
    Trying too hard to be funny/sexy/flirty
    Obsessive calling, IMing, texting, emailing, etc
    Inappropriate physical contact (place or time)
    Stalking
    Obsession over what the person pursued is doing all the time
    Any actions that show that the person has no life other than the person being pursued.
     
  18. JohnJohnJohnson

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    creepy guy:

    any male who shows interest in a woman whom she finds unattractive.

    nothing more or less.
     
  19. hsugh knight

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    Ultimately someone who is shady. someone whose intentions you can't read and thus makes you uncomfortable.
     
  20. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Case in point, each woman is different... demosnat does not like direct (initial) advances, so any guy who directly advances on her is "creepy":
    And yet here's a guy who regularly uses this approach:
     
  21. JohnJohnJohnson

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    wrong

    creepy guy:

    any male who shows interest in a woman whom she finds unattractive.

    nothing more or less.

    that's it. there's nothing else to think about.

    stop reflecting on what this means about the guy. it's just something about the girl. she's not into him.
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    First convo between random dude and my ex-gf:

    guy "Are you part black?"
    exgf "No, why..."
    guy "Cause it looks like you got something there that might have a little black in it."

    whether or not this is creepy depends on the guy's game.
     
  23. hsugh knight

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    it's a two way street. as a guy, i've found other guys creepy even if they weren't ghey :o
     
  24. JordanClarkson

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    What I mean is, instead of sitting there and asking a ton of questions, you should have some stories of your own as well. I mean there's also a time and place and a way to just sit there and listen...in a way where you come off as wanting to get the person to feel good about talking about themselves, not so much as needing to know about their life for yourself or as a way to keep the conversation going because you have nothing else to offer.

    That happens all of the time. I think almost everybody does this, actually. An example is Hillary Clinton screwing herself over with the Robert Kennedy assassination comments. I mean she did that TWICE and people are going WTF.

    But some people can make up for it if they keep talking and then all is forgotten. I'm guilty of putting it out there myself...just saying something weird and frank simply to shock people. I have a bit of a cruel, twisted style of humor.
     
  25. Funklordtoejam

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    Oh, George. Yeah he talks to himself quite a lot while doing the dishes. It's very strange.
     

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