What is the best way to ask a girl out

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  1. spornf

    spornf Guest

    I an eighteen year old guy who needs some advice, in regards to finding out how to ask women out. I have the confidence I just don't know how to go about asking them(women) out. :bowdown: :bowdown:
     
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  2. IslanderOffRoad

    IslanderOffRoad Do you even lift kit? OT Supporter

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    hey... you want to go see a movie on friday?
     
  3. is300eater

    is300eater New Member

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    for me, the hardest thing to do is asking a girl that works at like... Starbucks or something or if she's a waitress at a restaurant, it's just weird, because there's always other people around (other employees, or customers),
     
  4. djshooter22

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    From what I know of women, a lot of them like a man with confidence. If you are able to ask out a waitress when people are around then that would show that you have confidence in yourself and you are not worried about other people. Just act as calm as you can and just simply ask the young lady if she would like to go out with you sometime, either to a movie, or dinner, or coffee(that wouldn't work for someone at Starbucks though), or anything you think of.
     
  5. ~XyZeR~

    ~XyZeR~ New Member

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    this actualy worked for me:

    go up to the girl and tell them u've been spending the whole time tryign to figure out what to say to her, most girls think you're cute then.
     
  6. laracroft

    laracroft teh croft

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    Thats all you have to say ;)
     
  7. nemopie

    nemopie OT Supporter

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    just ask them if they want to go see a movie or somehting and have confidencedont be like Ummmm.... I was woundering if.. DAmn it .....Ummm what i ment to say was... shit never mind i have to use the bathroom
     
  8. works more often than not
     
  9. kuno

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    There's no one or two tricks to it. It all depends on the girl. Best you could do is just ask a simple question or two. Like are they busy later tonight or tomorrow night and if not if they wanna go do something... like a movie!

    Yes the movie is played out.. and it won't give you much of a chance to talk.. but it gets one feet in the door for another date. At least then you wouldn't have to feel too awkward about asking her out again in your car or whatever. Confidence? eh.. not so much, if the girl likes you then then that's not such a big deal.
     
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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    Just be yourself. Try not to spit, or stutter. ;) You'll do fine.
    Best of luck.



    Not a bad idea. :)
     
  11. 1FastRide

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    listen, i girl wants confindence... this girl i met at the super market, she was next to me, and i thought what would be a nice opener.... "hey im trying to make alfredo, what do you think i should use out of these 2?" then after she went out of her way to help me, i simply said "hey im gonna be honest with you..... im attracted to you, would you like some alfredo?" and that was it.... she laughed, i got her number.... now in your situation, you want something simple..... this always worked best for me... hey, i would really enjoy it if i could do something with you this weekend... maybe just hang out casually.... whadda you say.... i also used this, if i ever wanted a girls number, i dont ask her for it directly as it sends out a red flag.... i simply say (after my opening line and some convo) can i call you sometime? they say yes and i hand them a pen and paper (always carry a pen bro) hope this helped.
     
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    My personal favorite for the first date is a hookah bar. Granted it only works on girls that are interested in trying hookah, smoke, or aren't 100% anti smoking. It gives you a chance to sit there, talk, and relax for a few hours. Some bars have a girl that comes by with roses too... an added bonus if you want to look like a sweet guy.
     
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    Mopar03 73-9 OT Supporter

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    will you be my girlfriend? circle one

    YES NO
     
  14. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    confidence is key
     
  15. lizzzardgirl

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    just do it. there are so many women out there. i know u want the specific girl, but if you have the concept of there being lots of girls out there, you'll have more confidence.
     
  16. dodgerdog

    dodgerdog If you're a racist, I'll attack with the North.

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    ain't nothin to it but to do it.
     
  17. Bam Bam

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    I agree that its hard to ask out RANDOM GIRLS. If youre already "friends" or if you have mutual friends and aquintances. Like if you go to school together...

    Start casually talking about a movie that just came out. If she says something like "aww i wanna go see that movie!" then just ask her out! "So let's go watch it this weekend". Easy as that.
     
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    much more challanging and interesting to make a pass on a girl you dont know and get them to go out w/you
     
  19. Camaro > rice

    Camaro > rice New Member

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    a hooker bar? wtf is that, doesn't sound like somewhere to go on a date:mamoru:
     
  20. Cameltoes

    Cameltoes Vagineer

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    be casual! don't feel like you need a poem or turn the whole thing into a big production.

    that's the best advice i can give you. good luck.
     
  21. ISO9002

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    yea...just take yourself as ease....

    if you're nervous...then...say...i have been thinking what to say to u, but i would like to ask u out...

    if you aint nervous...then...say...hey, are you busy this "whatever day", wanna go to grab sth to eat together? sushi? (dont say movie...most likely they think you wanna get a date so hurry, welll you are, just not letting her know)
     
  22. Britney Spears

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    You have the confidence- that's your foundation.

    Now go tell her what you told us about not knowing how to ask a girl out. (we love that kinda stuff) And be sure to do something that shows you went the extra mile for her, like getting her flowers... White ones.
     

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