ok two things: first, does anyone know of that message forum that is oriented towards educating guys on how to get a chick, and how women work in general (relationships)? i ran across it awhile back and found it interesting, but have no idea how to find it again. it seemed like a pretty well developed board. also, and this will be a non-factor if the above is solved, does anyone have a link to that theory that describes the differences of how girls and guys act towards each other? it basically state that women put the men in their life into two groups: the ones they would go out with, and the ones that are purely "friends". it also says how guys rate every woman they know (except family, etc) on a scale of who they would have sex with first/last. please help me - i'd really like to find this. my girlfriend didn't understand when i attempted to explain it all to her, and i found it really interesting at the time. thanks!